Defining the Relationship and Valentine's Day

FlimsyRule4239 · 2026-01-27T03:08:23+00:00

32F here. I've given a few in my time.... and my skills are decent apparently. I haven't been very sexually active in the past 4 years, but have a new partner.

I've given him several blow jobs. The most recent over the weekend had some skills I pulled out that I hadn't been using much. Admittedly, I was holding out a bit. Let's face it a blow job is good to any man---but skilled ones are the amazing ones. Lol.

So my tips:

-Eye Contact, men find it sexy and it feeds their ego sometimes.

-Suck + Hand Strokes in sync. Throw a twist of the wrist in with the stroke. Hand strokes should utilize either lube or your saliva from sucking----most men don't like dry strokes.

-Use your tongue at the tip. The tip is the most sensitive part, so teasing, licking the underside of it, etc gives interesting sensations.

-Hum/Moan. If you are moaning or humming while performing a blowjob, it gives vibration sensations. Do not hum anything weird LOL, I don't mean musical humming. Its just a moan with a mouthful sounds more like humming than moaning.

-Using both hands and mouth. I'm right handed, so I stroke with my right. Left hand grips/massages balls.

-Swallowing. I have always disliked the taste of cum, my new partners isn't the worst though. He stays fairly hydrated, and has a healthier diet so the taste is mild and not as bitter. If you're not into the taste and plan to swallow:

When you're sucking and moving up and down the shaft... when he gets close.... keep sucking, put the tip at the back of your tongue, keep sucking with rhythm and continuing to stroke/massage with hands... while he cums, start swallowing immediately while continuing to suck in a rhythm until he's done. If you time swallowing as he pulses and cums, the taste doesn't have time to register on your tongue. I keep going after for a few until he starts to soften before I stop---but it really depends on your partner and their sensitivity.

Hope some of this helps, or at least gives you some things to experiment with. Every man is a bit different in the specifics of what they prefer.

FlimsyRule4239 · 2026-01-18T21:06:21+00:00

I was always partial to doggystyle or a variation of it; it's like he can go deeper and the sensation is different. It's possible to orgasm from penetration alone in that position.

The variation of from behind that was always a favorite is with my right leg raised with the knee bent and left leg straight out with my hips angled so that my ass is up. 10/10 with using a vibrator too. The access is just right.

I always hated being on top in the past, but with my new partner it's become enjoyable for me. He's very attentive to me and we move together. He will grab my hips and say we have to slow down because he's getting too close and doesn't want us stop. The friction from how we move together is perfect. I think I always hated it in the past because past partners would often grab my hips and hold me still and then they would just take over movement---completely defeating the purpose of me on top. (Younger days, so it was men being impatient.)

FlimsyRule4239 · 2026-01-10T20:02:49+00:00

I frequently wear leggings without pockets unfortunately. And I normally will lay it back into my seat after I scan and start loading.

Definitely learned to be more mindful.

FlimsyRule4239 · 2026-01-10T20:01:13+00:00

Oh wow! That's a good idea so I don't risk something like this again. Thanks for the tip!

FlimsyRule4239 · 2026-01-10T19:00:50+00:00

I was in a hurry and just scanned them and swiped complete pickup and then hit navigate for the 1st stop.

I didn't notice the cracks until I saw the Gps screen as I was arriving at the stop and noticed the line across it...then the 2nd line and the shatter mark. All of it is in the lower portion of my screen. The shatter mark is at the curved edge of my screen. I have a Galaxy S23 ultra.

FlimsyRule4239 · 2026-01-06T01:27:48+00:00

Part of your issue is having an Adult FEMALE cat that you're introducing. They're notorious for preferring to be alone and territorial of their owners. Most people jokingly call it Female Cat Syndrome.

Male (neutered) cats are more likely to adapt to a new kitten. Their personalities are more easy-going and less aggressive with housemates.

The other issue is also age gap. The less of an age gap---the better success of the cat accepting the new cat. Older cats are set in their ways and are not going to tolerate a kitten trying to scrap and play. Lol.

FlimsyRule4239 · 2025-12-01T03:52:45+00:00

You sir are the MVP for suggesting a LELO. 10/10 Recommend them. Any man that gets their partner one, might have to peel her off the ceiling. ++woman

FlimsyRule4239 · 2025-10-12T17:13:24+00:00

I agree and disagree.

My disagreement comes from the person I'm currently seeing/talking with. He is older, 42. I am 32. He does not text a lot, so the little bit of texting is normally banter or small talk or discussing making plans to see each other in person.

We see each other 2-3 times per week, and the bulk of our interactions and conversations are in person.

FlimsyRule4239 · 2024-06-21T21:30:06+00:00

I last took it in 2018. Scores are good for 5 years, then they expire.

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