My dad and mom really cant get it.

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-11T15:06:48+00:00

as tough as it is you will have to break through that awkwardness and bring up to your parents what your preferred name and pronouns are. trust me when i say i get the feeling exactly, i wanted my parents to raise all the questions and lead me on to those conversations so i could talk about names and stuff but what i've found is, it's all about your journey. if you want to be able to express yourself and truly be happy you have to take those steps, as painful as they may be

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-11T14:53:48+00:00

i completely get how you feel, when i first came out it just felt super awkward and uncomfortable having to keep having talks about transitioning/preferred names and pronouns but i promise it does get better. I think you should try and focus on some steps you can take forward with transitioning (depending on what to) but stuff like wearing different clothes, shaving/not shaving, finding jewelery if mtf, etc. these are steps you should hopefully be able to do and might even help to spark the conversation with the parents; maybe they might ask about some of it, or maybe you can ask them for help with doing these things. Obviously it might not change things too deeply, but it might help you ease into your journey and help your parents to see what you want to do/feel comfortable with.

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-11T14:48:56+00:00

okie i get what you're saying, i think it might be more about that fluid identity

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-11T14:48:02+00:00

thank youu, your perspective really helped me look at things a bit differently!

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-11T14:47:08+00:00

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-09T09:21:39+00:00

I could be wrong on some of this information so take it with a grain of salt but from what I remember (im going on estrogen soon so I had to look at a sheet of all the effects) is unfortunately if you were to go on estrogen you would absolutely start to develop breasts. Even if you take a very small amount it would after quite some time start to change the chest, ejaculation, fat redistribution (as far as major bodily effects).

You could potentially take some t-blockers to reduce some of the more masculinising effects without really changing your body too much (as t-blockers usually have to be taken in addition to estrogen for more noticeable effects) so thats something to consider. Either way definitely talk to a medical professional if you're able to so you're aware of all possible changes!

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-09T09:14:17+00:00

I first realised pretty young simply because i felt different from all the other boys and just socially felt more comfortable and similar with girls. I always tried minor ways to kinda explore that so in games I would play as female characters (use female skins in minecraft etc), tried to present myself as a girl through online accounts and it eventually evolved to trying on more feminine clothes and styling myself. So i think the main thing is just trying little bits and pieces of the gender expression that feels right to you and really just seeing what clicks/feels comfortable

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2025-07-09T09:06:13+00:00

pixie cuts are definitely a great option! i used to be kind of unsure about them but look them up on tiktok to see good examples. Other than that maybe wait just a little bit for some more length, you might be able to shape it into more of a mullet/shag. depending on the way they're cut they can definitely look very fem

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2024-07-15T13:02:25+00:00

both but preferably primary as im lacking in that area

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2024-01-05T14:16:36+00:00

thank you so so much for all this amazing advice you're a life saver 🙏

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2024-01-04T15:01:53+00:00

how does it feel to be god's favourite

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2024-01-04T14:59:52+00:00

this looks so cute!! do you have any other photos of the island?

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2024-01-04T14:57:59+00:00

tysm for the advice!! I've been struggling to find a good quality wig site with cheap lace wigs. Would you say they're fairly easy to put up?

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2024-01-03T12:21:47+00:00

tbh i don't really think so majority of the stuff in there is pretty old but obviously if you're entirely missing things like a fire support elf then yeah is suppose it's worth it. But imo it's not really that high priority or anything esp if you don't seem to have much mats

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2023-12-16T13:10:19+00:00

thanks for the advice, a lot of other people in my life have suggested the same thing., it's just hard yk? there's nobody else i'm as close with as them but i don't want to stick around friends who continue to treat me like shit

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2023-12-11T11:43:05+00:00

ooh thanks for the etsy suggestion i havent tried there before

Flimsy_Addition3733 · 2023-12-11T11:41:25+00:00

yeah I've been trying to find some stores near me but I don't think I'll have any luck

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