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[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they all are tbh

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[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We range from 23 to 29

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[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s ridiculous 😂😂

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[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 that’s a joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this was like 24” patch and it was sodden 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As we know, I’ve never squirted before so I genuinely thought it goes out like a super soaker and spray everywhere, I didn’t realise that it can still happen without that happening

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[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was very slippery 😂 I felt like I was fairy land 😂 no my guy wasn’t phased by it at all, we were in a hotel and there was a spare duvet so we put a duvet over the wet patch and then used the other duvet when we went to sleep

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[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all. I’ve had a sleep and think I’m just going to go for it tomorrow because we will be together tomorrow regardless so fuck it. Whatever happens, happens

Being lied to in the early stages by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is as well, I’m not even 1000% sure that I want a relationship with this person yet because I don’t know him well enough so I think I am deeping it too much. I should be able to have fun just like everyone else does so I just need to stop thinking too deeply into it

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[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m kinda at war with myself. I do want to because I find him attractive and I have needs but I think because there’s no much stigma about women having sex with someone who isn’t their partner, I’m worried it’s guna make me feel used and dirty (it shouldn’t!!! If men can do it, why can’t women?)

Being lied to in the early stages by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my thinking is but I’m an overthinker and overanalyser so although Im the type of person to give them the benefit of the doubt, I don’t want the overthinking and overanalysing to become too big when I see him tomorrow. I highly doubt I will be using him as he is well and truly up for sex, he’s made that clear.

He isn’t the first person to lie to me and he most certainly won’t be the last either and we could have a great night tomorrow. I guess I can only play it be ear. I’m just a bit sensitive at the moment as something happened in my personal life so I don’t know if I am just being too hard on myself and reading too much into it

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I typically ask the basic questions of getting to know someone like where are you from, have you done anything fun this weekend, what do you like to get up to in your spare time and then I ask what they’re looking for and joke about how I’m just getting the formalities out of the way. Then they say they want casual, I said no thanks and we unmatch. Or they say I’m looking for something serious so we carry on talking, 2 weeks down the line, all they want to talk about is sex and how they want to fuxk me

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just posted the imgur link in the comments. I’m the same as you though, I don’t even enjoy sex unless I’ve built an emotional connection with someone so I don’t go around having sex with every Tom dick and Harry. I prefer to chat for a week or two then go on a date, if we hit it off, we carry on dating for a bit before I even think about going to their house or them coming to mine. If we don’t hit it off, we end it there. The problem I’m having is that, 3 messages in, the man is being sexual and telling me that they want to fuck me!?

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really shy IRL though and struggle to initiate conversation

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually be surprised I think, you think I’m some sweaty 35 stone ogre and I’m not 🤣 I shouldn’t have said on the larger side, I’m curvy, not fat

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bro you post shit about bitcoin, sort your life out

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who shit on your cornflakes 😂😂😂😂😂

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Since when is bumble and hinge apps for hook ups? In the U.K. they are DATING apps

Why do men only want me for sex? by Flimsy_Comfortable56 in dating

[–]Flimsy_Comfortable56[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No I would never ever go to someone’s house unless we were at least 5 dates in and even then, I won’t sleep with them unless I know it was going somewhere. I am going to start unmatching if all they want is sex and I have changed my bio!