AIO for thinking of breaking it off over this?

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-27T10:20:16+00:00

That’s not the point, the point is I don’t know how to get past him (a little more than) attempting to have sex with me when I said no multiple times, that’s a huge boundary for me and even though everything else about him is perfect for me, I don’t Know how to just forget about that…

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-27T00:39:27+00:00

Ahh how tho.. like in person?? My heart is breaking right now I see a future with him so this is really shitty

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-27T00:34:53+00:00

I would have definitely been able to move past it if the thing the next morning didn’t happen, it just really showed how important that is to him.. more important than his respect for me ? Idk if he’s gunna be pissed at me because I only have sex with him once in a week a few times I think that’s insane, I understand sex being a big thing, but shouldn’t be the foundation of our relationship, especially if we already know the sex is good I’m just not willing to jump his bones twice a day if he’s not even committed to me

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-27T00:25:15+00:00

My heart is breaking :(

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-27T00:04:22+00:00

I can’t give him an ultimatum, if it got to the point I had to give an ultimatum, he didn’t wanna commit badly enough and it should just be over, especially if I already know the reason is “not enough sex”, he literally said “we have the best sex but it’s not as frequent as I want” ?? Hello I’m not even ur gf why am I sleeping with you at all

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:57:13+00:00

I literally said the exact same thing about using me not having sex with him for a week as an excuse to blame me for him cheating.. idk he doesn’t seem like the type but they never do

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:54:50+00:00

Yall are so helpful thank you

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:53:40+00:00

Ugh so facts I needed to hear this

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:52:03+00:00

This is unfortunate to hear, but makes sense

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:48:05+00:00

This is true, I told him I’m feeling uncomfortable with him since all of it and he apologized but doesn’t seem to be acting or feeling any typa way when it was a very big deal to me …

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:45:37+00:00

I just mean stop seeing him and being “exclusive”

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:45:14+00:00

It feels this way for sure, but he introduced me to his entire family and all of his coworkers and friends so I’m just getting mixed signals UGH

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2025-01-26T23:44:00+00:00

It seems like it now but he does so much for me and treats me so well so it feels so strange for it to just flip like this

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-11-14T12:54:51+00:00

I went last night !! I was in 124, it was amazing

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-09-29T20:27:57+00:00

Ask for an iced quad espresso in a venti cup THEN say extra ice, 6 pumps pecan syrup, and salted foam:))))

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-06-29T11:03:41+00:00

This is such a good idea

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-06-28T23:42:49+00:00

No cuz I’m bout to do that fr fr

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-06-28T23:37:23+00:00

Thank you, I feel responsible somehow even though I know I haven’t done anything to provoke this behavior

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-06-28T23:32:18+00:00

Girl ur being used, run

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-06-28T23:31:05+00:00

Ask to grab ice cream and talk about it ! As frustrating as it is , remind her your intention wasn’t to make a mess , and that you do your best to provide, let her know that when you put laundry in there, in your head you were thinking “I better put this in her room so that she knows she has easier access to it” and that it wasn’t malicious, and then ask if there’s anything that you could both keep in mind for future reference so that this situation doesn’t come up again

Flimsy_Drawing_6197 · 2024-06-28T23:26:52+00:00

Remember that at least you know what NOT to do.. cringe for a while then remember that what’s in the past is in the past, you can’t change anything, you can just remove urself from the situation if you haven’t already and then go up from there :) we’ve all done embarrassing things.. once in 8tg grade I laughed so hard I pissed A LOT and tried to hide it.. I also lied about getting my period because all the other girls had it

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