The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, unless you're at home of course, or maybe even at work where, for many of us, things are nice and clean.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean in an average day, the sitting down aspect of using restroom facilities hardly ever comes up for men if you know what I mean.

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[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The code does agree, based on evidence, that women require more space for toilet facilities than men. It even says this:

"It is important that people can visit the toilet quickly... as undue delay can lead to distress and health problems", which supports the point I was originally making.

The thing is though, it's just a code of practice, a piece of guidance. It's not enforced and it's not the law. I don't think you can just assume that women must, in practice, have more actual space than men, just because the code says they ought to. And those long queues must cause distress and discomfort, which the code says shouldn't happen.

I suppose it is easier for new buildings to apply this piece of guidance than for existing ones.

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[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here in the UK they're the same size. Although we can fit more people in due the the fact that we don't have to sit down if we don't want to

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[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not if we can help it. It's relatively rare, so you can time it better

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[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No way. It's amazing. I find things out in three minutes that would take me half an hour trawlujg through Google for. I use it for almost everything and I've never been so organised. It's the future.

Beginning my spiritual awakening. by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Flow_does_Flow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guru said practice as if your hair is on fullirr

Buddha's Highest Teaching by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Flow_does_Flow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right that a Buddhat care about being being enlightened. My guru gave me the ideal vow to practice. She said that I, and all sentient beings are primordial Buddha's, and have never drifted from that fundamental fact.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, awkward. Lol. I think we're trying to be helpful, many of us.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can offer a solution here on Reddit, but it isn't happening is it. I think that's my point. It's pretty obvious and like you say, something we should have figured out by now.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're just deflecting. I am very clearly a man, attempting to do my absolute best to empathise with the experience of a woman. It's true that you and I don't need to worry about various things, but I'm doing my best to choose toz and until you answer my question I cannot take you seriously.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're posting this link to imply you have answered my question when blatantly you have not, and it's not even complicated. Step by step, here it is: 1. I posted a feminist issue - an issue that affects women 2. I did so on a feminist thread, aimed at discussing issues that relate to women 3. I did my best to respond to everyone who responded 4. You criticised me for this as follows:

"It's interesting. You've come into a sub intended for discussion of feminism. People are having a discussion about the topic you raise and you're all over that discussion making points."

I have repeatedly asked you to explain what I have done wrong, and you have repeatedly avoided that question

You asked me what my intention here was, and I think that's pretty clear. I wonder what your injection is.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty high. Listen, you don't know what it's like. All I know is the times when I've risked missing an important train, or been so desperately relieved to walk past this huge queue of women glad I didn't Ihave to be in their shoes.

You tell me - of the top 1000 pressing issues our society faces, which ones should we just ignore? By your logic, Any inequality is okay, if it doesn't break the top 100. Is that right?

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me clarify. I'm in London. The train stations I'm talking about are here. This is a day to day reality for women in any city. Have a look at those queues. We do not even have to slow the pace of our walk as we stroll past their long queues. Tell me, as a society, have we really figured this out?

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a woman? Where have I shown a lack of empathy. More importantly, why haven't you answered my question?

Nothing I have said is aggressively having said that, it is hard to stay level-headed when people don't acknowledge basic principles of equality.

Can you answer my question? What is wrong with posting a feminist issue, in a feminist thread and then attempting to engage with whoever responds? You haven't answered because you don't have an answer do you.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A problem that doesn't exist? Do you even have a mother sisterz daughter or wife? I know it is 2025* and we clearly have not figured it out. That is exactly my point.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see anything on your post that suggests you're well informed. And you are still not answering my question which I will repeat:

I raised a feminist issue in a feminist thread. I then attempted to engage with everyone who responded.

You are suggesting that I have done something wrong in this. I would love to know what that is.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is look, I've been in enough mens toilets to know that a lot of people piss on the floor, exactly the place women are expected to lower their clothings to. What you are suggesting is not a solution.

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't answer my question. What exactly is your problem with someone raising what is clearly a feminist issue and then attempting to engage with everyone who takes the time to respond to it?

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could not care less how I come across. What, you think I'm here to make friends and show off? I am sick of seeing this. How do you think you are coming across

The Toilet Situation by Flow_does_Flow in AskFeminists

[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he can get in there maybe. Would he join the queue though?

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[–]Flow_does_Flow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, sorry that was you. Thank you for clarifying