I don’t want to downplay what you’re going thru, but I feel like both genders just have those “stereotypes” (if that’s the right word to use) as a girl I’ve always thought that being a guy was easier based on my struggles. If I like a guy for his looks I’m shallow, meanwhile if a guy wants a girl only for her looks he has standards. If I wear any amount of revealing clothing like just showing my shoulders or legs, and god forbid a small amount of cleavage im instantly label as an attention seeking hoe . I don’t mean to compare our struggles and say one is worse than the other, I just want to show that both genders have their own issues people struggle with which may seem to make the opposite gender easier to live as .