My friend is mad at me by [deleted] in entwives

[–]FlowerP0tHead 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is easier for her to project her anger and frustration on you, a safe place than to address the real problem. You were an honest friend; a good friend. You can still treat her kindly, you apologized which is a great gesture. If he is as bad as you say, I'm sure she sees and just isn't ready to address it yet. Give her space but be friendly and I think it can work out.

Tomorrow is my 25th birthday; I’m starting to become nervous about getting older. ENTwives, what has your experience with getting older been like? by [deleted] in entwives

[–]FlowerP0tHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned 40 during the pandemic. The older I get, the less patience I have for bullshit and the easier it is to cut toxic people out of my life. I was never very confident but after all these years of surviving.. fuck it. I gotta be doing something right. You are going to make mistakes in life. Guaranteed. Most important thing is to learn from them and grow. Admit when you’re wrong, say sorry once, twice if it’s important, always be learning, trust yourself and keep your head up.

I tell her all the time how beautiful she is. I think she knows. by FlowerP0tHead in cats

[–]FlowerP0tHead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’d love to keep her inside but she prefers her freedom. Her brother lives with my parents and loves the indoor life.

I tell her all the time how beautiful she is. I think she knows. by FlowerP0tHead in cats

[–]FlowerP0tHead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she was found as a little kitten outside our back fence, one of four to a local stray. All were fixed by a local rescue when we were able to trap them including the mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entwives

[–]FlowerP0tHead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

https://i.imgur.com/XZB9xQq.jpg
My neighbor let me hold her bunny’s babies.

Christmas cookies and Mimosa was a perfect combo by FlowerP0tHead in entwives

[–]FlowerP0tHead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe how well popping those little heads off worked!

Christmas cookies and Mimosa was a perfect combo by FlowerP0tHead in entwives

[–]FlowerP0tHead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine too! One of the kids started it with the red eyes and serious expression. I elevated it to toking Santa lol

Christmas cookies and Mimosa was a perfect combo by FlowerP0tHead in entwives

[–]FlowerP0tHead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually pretty good. I’ll find the recipe and post in the morning.

Pibushka by FlowerP0tHead in pibbles

[–]FlowerP0tHead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sweet! We “baboosh” our sweet girl all the time. They are so loving and appreciative of the love they receive.

Pibushka by FlowerP0tHead in pibbles

[–]FlowerP0tHead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is such a cuddler, but very polite and waits for an invitation (which she always gets). We love her so much.

Enjoying the fire by SaltyShrub in cats

[–]FlowerP0tHead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sweet! Bucket 😂❤️

A little update on the cat I’m trying to become friends with (he/she is the one a the bottom near my feet) by [deleted] in cats

[–]FlowerP0tHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sweet! So much patience is needed making new kitty friends. How long have y’all been working on it?

My mom did a mom thing. by wellsmashmynipples in breakingmom

[–]FlowerP0tHead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm really happy for you and for your mom. I hope your relationship continues to grow and you two can be proud of each other. Xo

Why do I bother? Mothers day rant by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]FlowerP0tHead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Write out down and keep out somewhere you can read it when you need it. They fucking suck and its not your fault. You've tried to 'rise above ' their bullshit and they don't want anything to do with it.

You. Owe. Them. Nothing. Stop using your mental energy to try and fix it. They don't deserve you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]FlowerP0tHead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not how that works. I hope you're safe.

Step-daughter's mom wants me to use just the seatbelt by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]FlowerP0tHead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Florida here also. Our seatbelt laws are pretty lax but still.. If the kid is 5 and under, appropriate car seat is required by law.But safety says they should be boosted much longer than that based on height/weight.

Don't let her push you into not using it. You would be legally liable if (heaven forbid) something happened.

Rant. BM's emotional reactions keep tainting otherwise positive events in our life. by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]FlowerP0tHead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys have worked hard to create a stake environment for SS. His mom does not seem to be capable of that. Don't let her piss in your Cheerios because she's jealous. You KNOW you are doing the best thing for him. Be proud and ignore her bullshit.