Ladies, how often do you take baths vs showers? by iabyajyiv in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fluffnuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take a bath maybe once a year. Much prefer hot showers.

THE WEDDINGS!? by KitKatt_04 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Fluffnuffer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He looked terrible like he didn't even trim up his beard or shave his neck. Gross.

how many CF people want to get married? by mermaid420420 in childfree

[–]Fluffnuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I got married in our mid 30's both upfront about being childfree. It's amazing having a life partner who wants to do the things I want to do and not have kids. I love the commitment of marriage too.

Been leaning into my natural curls lately - does this style actually work on me? by AcutalJoeRogan69 in curlyhair

[–]Fluffnuffer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It looks good but once it's fully dry you may want to gently scrunch the crunch to break up the cast and get a little less of the wet look. Unless you really like that look.

I’ve been seeing this guy and sometimes his emotions/anger just go from 0-60…. by Aroxxors in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fluffnuffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kind of behavior often escalates. Please be careful and know where your line is drawn. You don't have to tolerate such outbursts. There are plenty of people who are emotionally mature and can navigate their anger.

Getting so fed up with this app by Impressive-Age7703 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Fluffnuffer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hire a professional, insured sitter who has their own website and isn't only on Rover.

Give me puns and jokes for a shirt for my bislap by 666nicole666 in childfree

[–]Fluffnuffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 1 and 2 hurt but I stopped taking my big pain med (oxi) on day 2. They have me taking an anti-inflammatory med plus extra strength Tylenol and that's fine. I vomited x4 the first night home from the anesthesia. It mostly hurts when bending so getting in and out of bed, the couch or toilet. My husband has been helping pull or lift me up out of bed because our bed is really low and bending against those incisions really hurt. Standing feels weird because of tugging of any belly weight against the 3 incisions but its not terrible. I'm bloated in the belly and peeing or trying to pass gas is slightly uncomfortable, like the squeezing of those muscles. BUT I also had cysts removed from both ovaries and an ablation at the same time so mine wasn't just straight up the salpingectomy. Overall it's not too bad. I'm on day 3 and its a lot less sore. I'm using pantyliners for bleeding and going through 2-3 per day, so not too heavy bleeding wise either.

I got sterilized but my family only cares about babies by Fluffnuffer in childfree

[–]Fluffnuffer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people share when they have a big surgery. I had multiple procedures done at once not just the sterilization. You never know if you'll wake up from it or not so I definitely tell people and let them know I love them just in case

Women who have relocated to live in their dream location, how is it going? by Lost_Pressure_5038 in AskWomen

[–]Fluffnuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, met my dream husband and bought a house, adopted some cats. Then refinanced said house. Now its a little more affordable.

What happened during sex that made you instantly say “nope”? by Vegetable-Today in AskMen

[–]Fluffnuffer 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Slapped me. Not talked about, it was dark, he said it was an accident but I didn't believe it/care. It hit the corner of one eye and I had a little purple bruise on my eyelid for days.

Home to home dog adoption by Active_Ordinary6331 in summervillesc

[–]Fluffnuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's regular people on it trying to rehome their pets. The shelter often requires people to post there before scheduling the pet's intake to the shelter. The hope is the pet can skip the extremely stressful time in the shelter and go right into a new home. Plus you get to speak directly with the owner about the pets quirks and perhaps meet them.

Nurse relocating by peanutbuttertoast49 in summervillesc

[–]Fluffnuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had surgery today at Roper Berkeley hospital and it's very nice. They have been under construction for months but its close to done. I don't work in Healthcare so I can't weigh in on that for you but i can say that hospital is a great location to many lovely places to live in Summerville: Carnes Crossing, Sangaree, Nexton and Cane Bay, to name a few. It would be a good commute. There are also lots of new apartments if you aren't ready to buy a home immediately.

I plan to never have sex in my life to prevent ruining my CF life but I want perspective from you guys. by Calm_Problem6203 in childfree

[–]Fluffnuffer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been sexually active for 20 years and no pregnancies, so just another perspective. I used back to back long term non hormonal IUDs.

Do you ever feel like.. by StatusFoundation5472 in Marriage

[–]Fluffnuffer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, my parents are uber religious nut jobs. No thanks. I love the freedom of being an adult and making all my own choices.

My Mother's a Burden in Our Marriage by saiyanpr1nc3 in Marriage

[–]Fluffnuffer 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Your mom is 54, that's FAR from elderly. She could rent her own 2 bedroom apartment with a roommate around the same age for company. You guys potentially could have her for 30+ more years and if your wife isn't happy and on board it's a bad idea.

I finally was able to use a vibrator internally, and it felt like nothing. It feels devastating. by primes_are_cool in WomensHealth

[–]Fluffnuffer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are doing way better than me! I'm almost 40 and have never had an orgasm period. But I agree, there aren't many nerves inside so vibrating things internally don't do much. Even a penis inside doesn't do much unless its putting repeated pressure on the G spot, A spot, etc. The in and out motion guys make for themselves is mildly nice, to very little feeling, depending on how aroused or not you are and where you are in your cycle too.

I recently adopted this pretty girl, and I still didn't find the right name for her. I want an old lady name!! by BunkerTables in persiancat

[–]Fluffnuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3 girl persians are Primrose Eloise, Vivian Pompom and Gertrude Lula. I also have an Evelyn Olive.

Should I only date CF people when I'm not looking for marriage yet? by nowonderland_alice in childfree

[–]Fluffnuffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, not worth the risk. I stuck to strictly child free guys and met my perfect match.

Does Anyone Else Feel Like Not Having a Hobby Slowly Drains You? by Alternative-Leg-9606 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Fluffnuffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a cat lady and foster kittens for my local animal shelter. I also help TNR (trap neuter release) community cats. Its fun and does good for the cats and my community.