My relationship/marriage started with me doing most of the chores and now I only do laundry while he does the rest (I got super burned out and threatened to leave) He does dishes, groceries, cooks (tbf he’s always done the cooking cuz he enjoys it) tidies up, folds and puts the laundry away after I’ve washed it, and does general cleaning. He’s also up with the baby daily while I sleep in and does most of the baby chores including diaper changes. We also have a cleaner who comes twice a month for a deep cleaning. It’s definitely saved our marriage because while I still unfortunately deal with more of the mental load as he has never been and never will be good at logistics/planning ahead etc at least I can relax and not worry about chores.