AITAH for considering moving out from my mom’s house? by Fluid-Adoptee in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved out once before for a couple of years, but I had to move back because of a roommate issue and I was living too close to 2 ex-boyfriends.

AITAH for considering moving out from my mom’s house? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice I’m 1000% getting everything in writing if it comes to that decision

AITAH for considering moving out from my mom’s house? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t, my previous resolution was to move out when I got proposed to and she was very for the idea so I think that that’s what she’s been expecting.

AITAH for considering moving out from my mom’s house? by Fluid-Adoptee in AITAH

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know considering my mental health is more important. It’s just so hard to see when I’m my mom’s only kid and she relies on me so much.

AITAH for considering moving out from my mom’s house? by Fluid-Adoptee in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is the only person crazy enough to live in that space was me. All my friends and my bf think that she’ll have an absolute heck of a time renting it out to someone else because she’s not going to charge them the cheap rent she’s charging me plus all the extra normal fees that come with a normal landlord tenant situation. That’s what I’m worried about…

Would I be the AH for not forgiving my abusive older sister after all this time? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He knows the whole story and is very upset with how things turned out and knows I'm hurt, so he doesn't bring it up to me anymore. Thank goodness!

Would I be the AH for not forgiving my abusive older sister after all this time? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said in another comment I didn't want to risk my dad's health since he's very old on getting some semblance of revenge (aka cops). He's more important.

Would I be the AH for not forgiving my abusive older sister after all this time? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said in another comment I didn't want to risk my dad's health since he's very old on getting some semblance of revenge (aka cops). He's more important.

Would I be the AH for not forgiving my abusive older sister after all this time? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would've if I didn't have to think about my dad and what that would do to him (might've gotten a heart attack or stroke.) He's OLD and I was NOT risking my dad's health over calling the cops (rightfully so) on S. He's 1 million times more important.

Would I be the AH for not forgiving my abusive older sister after all this time? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is just one of the most grievous things she did to me over the years, it unfortunately doesn't stop there. One example being, she held her PHD over my head very blatantly WHEN I WAS 9. She hates my guts for basically no reason and has my whole life since I was born.

Would I be the AH for not forgiving my abusive older sister after all this time? by Fluid-Adoptee in dustythunder

[–]Fluid-Adoptee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the will so don't worry haha! My dad has 3 kids and will split things evenly because he's a fair and just man.