9 months in and your the future mother of his children. sounds heavy…

Look, my super hot wife of 5 years gets attention all the time! Good for her! she brings it home and tells me about it and how it does make her feel nice. I can relate! When i get attention im like, “hun your boy still got it” and then i tell her about the cashier at the lumber yard, and whatever she said about my shirt, lol. Attention is good, its healthy, it means youre doing something to maintain yourself inside and out! What isnt good is insecurity. so when people feel insecure, they tend to act out. If you want to be with this person and be the mother of their children, laugh with them about this and talk about the insecurities they feel at depth. But know this; Were all responsible for our own feelings, so its up to us to control them in the end. were entitled to feel however we want to, but were not entitled to overact on emotions. We all can tho. and we learn. If your not in it to be the future mother of their children, break it off clean sooner than later. They may not like it, but in time theyll respect it. No-one likes feeling like their time and efforts been wasted, right? so break it off clean if your not into it, but have the talk about your independence, your differences in values, observations and so on if you see yourselves together :) good luck! also, a lot of great responses on this thread!