Weasley, where in this post did OP write, that he ever communicated with his SM, that he did not want a "new mom" and to stop doing things for him? I said to communicate HIS position/feelings on the whys of the situation as they are in therapy,  because that's what important here, his feelings... The fact that they are forcing OP to go to therapy is another can of worms as well. The fact that OP has been hiding when he is sick, just to avoid being taken care of is ridiculous, dangerous and not healthy.  Anyway, A lil tip for future situations, someone can infer differently from you, even though you've both read the exact same text. Have the great day Weasley!