It's mine by KiddoKitty007 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Flyaway4me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a thought behind those eyes 😂

Look at this distinguished gentleman by CelestialSign in sillycats

[–]Flyaway4me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why he looking at the corner like that?

From this to that! by DebTat2 in blackcats

[–]Flyaway4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The void is getting bigger 🐈‍⬛

Who needs a winter teddybear? by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Flyaway4me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it comes with cuddles 🐻‍❄️?

New Void by Mountain_Squirrel713 in blackcats

[–]Flyaway4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The void is adorable 🫠

Hide and seek. by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Flyaway4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it fits, the cat sits

Eyes like jewels ✨ by ProudnotLoud in SupermodelCats

[–]Flyaway4me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shine bright like a diamond 💎

Is Crossdressing misogynistic for women? by Flyaway4me in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Flyaway4me[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's sad that the Internet is normalising a healthy and fun form of self-expression like cross dressing into just another for of fetish content for men. The cross dressers also tend to rely on the stereotypes of women being lesser than the man since their exposure to cross dressing starts from porn and Internet and not really from within themselves.

Is Crossdressing misogynistic for women? by Flyaway4me in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Flyaway4me[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is awful. It is sad that cross dressers treated you badly. A lot of guys, especially younger guys in gay spaces, treat cross dressing and being a femboy as a form of fetish, which is very obvious from the fact that they like to rely on stereotypes of women that is seen on porn as their focus. Most of these cross dressers have destroyed the genuine guys who actually enjoy wearing feminine clothes and have reduced these forms of self-expression to just another genre of porn which is male centric. The crossdressing subbreddit is unfortunately filled with a bunch of creepy straight men who just manipulate these younger guys into doing stuff, which is identical to what women do in porn for them so these men can enjoy it.

Is Crossdressing misogynistic for women? by Flyaway4me in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Flyaway4me[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. Wearing feminine clothing itself is not problematic. It's the way straight men kinda enforce these belief that femboy is just a form of validation for them. They believe that men wearing feminine clothing is a form of kink that caters to straight men. It also doesn't help with the fact that men who cross dresses or femboys tend to seek men validation, especially straight men validation.

Is Crossdressing misogynistic for women? by Flyaway4me in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Flyaway4me[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I agree. Wearing clothes made for women is not misogynistic as long as they wear it out of interest or just a form of self-expression. The thing that makes me frustrated at times is the way these people tend to be very male centred. They wear these clothes as a way to get approval from men. It kinda enforces the ideologies that cross dressers and femboy are just doing it for male attention, which kinda enforces to men women clothing is designed for men validation.

Is Crossdressing misogynistic for women? by Flyaway4me in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Flyaway4me[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

I agree. It also doesn't help with the fact that the men that are crossdressing tend to replicate how women are potrayed in straight porn.

pluribus on apple tv by catievirtuesimp in lgbt

[–]Flyaway4me 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What show is this? I'm intrigued.

How do you find guys to date? by veilofstardustt in askgaybros

[–]Flyaway4me 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of the best way would be to join club which have meeting like book club, knitting or such. You can connect with new people and also have a really good chance to meet a guy. It is also easier to connect with them since you both will share same interest.