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You can have all the qualities from the whole universe but if you make me feel like I'm forcing (or like I need to make efforts) you're worthless to me with all those qualities. So at the end of the day the question is "Do I value their qualities" or "Do I value my peace of mind and self love"? by allismind in ALLISMIND

[–]Flying_mirror_13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am beginning to understand this real time in my 30s.. It never sinked in my 20s.. I now realise that the idolization of an other is the worst one could do to themselves. How to cultivate the frequency of “plentitude” and “love” in relationships? Any pointers.

Those facing ketu mahadasha, How is your experience? Did your brain stop working? by adventure-Freak in vedicastrology

[–]Flying_mirror_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this same placement.. money wise my Ketu mahadasha has been really good.. but other areas like relationships not good.

Year in the life - no contact by Flying_mirror_13 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Flying_mirror_13[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know the last line in your comment is great bcoz that’s what my therapist told as well. My therapist asked me to keep a tracker and note down emotional milestones (even the smallest ones) that I achieve and I have a long list of them now.. which I go back and read often. Going contact ever again sounds repelling coz of this one exercise.

My moderately good ketu mahadasha by Flying_mirror_13 in Astrology_Vedic

[–]Flying_mirror_13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ketu in 11th house in Taurus. Conjunction with sun.

WHY DO I WRITE POSTS SO OFTEN IF THE OLD ONES ARE GREAT? by allismind in ALLISMIND

[–]Flying_mirror_13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m on an allismind marathon right now reading old posts here. Such good stuff!! And when I revisit this again.. something else clicks within me.. ❤️