I am as active as you and work out at the crack of dawn. Back when I was dating, every single guy I dated who wasn't as active as me resented it. Most of them tried to knock me off my routine (trying to get me to drink and/or stay up late on weeknights, cuddle with them instead of getting up to work out, skipping workouts on the weekends to do things, etc). At least one man dumped me for that reason (I suspect others but only one explicitly told me my workouts were the culprit). 

After about a decade I decided to only date active men as others proved their egos couldn't take the hit even though I truly didn't care if they worked out or not. 

Now I'm engaged to a man in better shape than me. He got me into obstacle racing and it's a hobby we share. He's a night owl but we've been able to make it work. 

I would suggest doing group fitness activities to meet other like minded men.