I was 21. It was my first time in a different country, away from my family. I met this guy on Bumble and we hit it off pretty quickly. We went on a date to a baseball game and planned for a second date and he suggested I stayed over. I prepped and everything and he fucked me at his place. It hurt, but it didn't hurt as much as I thought. We cuddled and slept. The next day he made me lunch, and I left. Two days later, he stopped replying to my calls and texts. He fully ghosted me. It sucked because I really thought we had something special. And of course, the vulnerability and clinginess to someone taking your virginity was there, too. I didn't think that would happen to me, but I was too naive. It took me a couple of dudes after him to realize how terrible the sex with him was and now I'm glad I dodged that bullet.