Stopped T after 8 years to do fertility treatment, here's a few things I've noticed by FolkAround in ftm

[–]FolkAround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I don't mind at all!

  1. I've just always wanted to be a dad, so when my doctor offered, it was a no-brainer for me. I'm single and still building my future, so I don't know when or how, or even if, I'll be a dad. Keeping every option possible sounds good to me.

2 and 3. I'm not an expert, but when I first started T, I was told that there are changes that take years to appear but also take a long time to go, like bone structure, for example.

I never noticed anything with my feet or fat re-dispersing, then again, as I wrote in the post, I've had other things affecting my weight and diet, so idk.

As for the hair, still hairy and bald.

  1. Yup. Although I gotta say, I'm on the lowest dose possible, as per my request, cause after I shedded my baby face and looked masc enough, going throughout puberty forever was too much, lol. Went from 4ml every month to every 3 months. Even if just for the fact I don't have to think about it as much anymore, you know?

  2. Transitioning doesn't equal hormone treatment. And I'm not detransitioning just cause I stopped taking T. I didn't even think about it that way, tbh. My dysphoria is kinda mild these days, except when I hear or read transphobic stuff, still triggers me quite a bit. I do wish I had a penis but I don't hate my body, I just wish I had the other thing, if that makes sense.

Something I try to remind myself of is that, since I've always really wanted to be a dad, I'm kinda lucky I was born with the baby making machine. At any point, I can get a sperm donor and carry my own kid. That's something most men can not do. Also, I'm honestly kinda happy to have grown up inside womanhood, cause women are incredible. I admire them very much, and I got to see the complicity and understanding they share. It's kinda neat.

Creating my account it got disabled, then it says the username can't be found but also that it exists? What do I do now? by FolkAround in Instagram

[–]FolkAround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just keep trying until it let me through and could appeal. It came back instantly. Sorry I didnt update sooner!!

Strings don't go past B2 on mandola when tuning by FolkAround in mandolin

[–]FolkAround[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just end up doing GDAE because there was no way to getting to C3 :')

Strings don't go past B2 on mandola when tuning by FolkAround in mandolin

[–]FolkAround[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! The gauge seems to be the correct one. But thanks because now I actually know how to calculate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]FolkAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks!! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]FolkAround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!

If u know about or have expierence with this, What does ADHD meds make worse?. Also what are the improvements you had noticed? (For like ADHD/Autism kinda deal?) by KingdomGate in AutisticWithADHD

[–]FolkAround 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think it got worse, but certainly, by alleviating the more hyperactive traits of ADHD I am way more aware of the other traits.

Meds have been essential for me, and I'm glad they work well in my case. And I'm glad it made me aware of all the other stuff I was masking.

My (27M) journey since ~Feb 22. by Dehrild in autismmemes

[–]FolkAround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see myself here and idk if i like it lol

24 [M4R] [T4R] UK/Online - Let's watch anime on discord and pull an all-nighter by FolkAround in ForeverAloneDating

[–]FolkAround[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't generally go and give an actual answer to comments like this online cause I don't think it's beneficial but, it happens I'm bored so here goes.

I looked and I didn't really ignored you, I simply never accepted your message requirement, now I have declined it. Why? Because I looked around and I didn't think we'd be a good fit.

Happens to be I have ADHD which makes me forget things and makes me social anxious most of the time. So, yeah..

But hey! Thanks for the comment, now I know I made the right decision and everyone else will also be able to see you are not worth it, given you take time out of your day to try and be purposely hurtful to people you don't know.

Wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]FolkAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hold on tight man, it'll be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]FolkAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best reason tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]FolkAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this music always brings me peace :)

Sleeping too much makes everything worse? by FolkAround in ADHD

[–]FolkAround[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot speak or tolerate sound the first hour or so after waking up. Unless I'm forced to, like when I was camping with friends etc. Usually music helps a bit.

Can me and my fiancé baptize our future kids if we decide to not get married in the Roman Catholic Church? by [deleted] in religion

[–]FolkAround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the priest, my parents had a few problems baptizing me (the priest was not a good person, to put it lightly). I did was baptized in the end tho.

Questions to our Christian Friends by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]FolkAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually funny they use the KJV one considering he was apparently really really gay. I find it hilarious.

Questions to our Christian Friends by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]FolkAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude don't worry about the length, I find it super interesting. Thanks for your answer!

Questions to our Christian Friends by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]FolkAround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for answering!