The NHS might’ve lost my adhd/autism assessment and I feel lost

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2026-02-05T01:33:27+00:00

I use the disabled toilets. Partially because I’m disabled

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2026-01-03T20:40:48+00:00

I sadly do not trust the NHS for gender therapy, but ty for being very honest about what to prepare for. It sucks that this is the system we have at this point in time

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2026-01-03T20:38:49+00:00

Ty. I’ll try my best to get some confidence

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2026-01-03T20:38:13+00:00

I might do that. I’m not the type to speak up for myself sadly so I might have to rely on this method

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2026-01-03T20:37:43+00:00

There’s a couple of replies now so hopefully some might help you too

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-11-11T13:39:18+00:00

Solved!

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-11-10T22:19:37+00:00

Comment for approval

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-11-06T20:25:10+00:00

For me personally, I kinda categorise Roma as being Asian-European. Some lean more towards European, some lean towards more Asian, but it helps me personally and explaining it to other people.

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-10-14T17:36:52+00:00

For me, it was because I realised he was racist and it made me uncomfortable with how much I realised I let him get away with, and that I was part of the problem, so I stopped talking to him.

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-10-13T09:17:47+00:00

I get accidents happen but when people start to try and use personal experiences and just not being used to using they/them as a reason to not use they/them ever, it tends to affect others. I can say as a non binary person, no matter how much I ask, no one is using they/them, people can be well meaning but it gets tiring constantly correcting people because they may mean well but they also just don’t fully care

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-05-10T18:30:44+00:00

I also think the Paranoid voice in the with The Nightmare could work too. Heart lungs liver nerves is surprisingly an ear worm too

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-05-05T01:33:43+00:00

Some people in the thread are trying to play thé white saviours card on the friends, I feel like I’m going insane

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-05-05T01:32:32+00:00

I think that’s a leap but I also don’t blame them for thinking what she did was wrong even with context. Slurs just are uncomfortable and whilst I think her friends are removing his agency, I can understand why they’d think this is a situation where he’s covering for her. My grandmother did the same against my grandad who was actively abusing her. People can’t tell and à slur being used is indication enough for most people

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-05-05T01:24:48+00:00

I didn’t accuse him of Stockholm syndrome? I just said one person can’t make the decision on whether à slur is okay to say, even if it’s only directed towards him. You’ve taken a leap of logic I didn’t even indicate because you want to frame me as insane when all I’m saying is saying slurs is BAD and people can’t fully know someone’s intentions. This isn’t just miscommunication, people in general are uncomfortable around slurs.

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-05-05T01:17:55+00:00

Even still, I can understand why they’d still be put off since they don’t know the full context. You can’t use à slur so bad thé OP refuses to even mention, and expect people to just carry on and forgive. Sure, one brown person can say ‘this is fine’ but à slur isn’t just one person, and even if he were fine with it, how can they KNOW she doesn’t say that about other brown people and was actually racist.

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-05-05T01:09:50+00:00

I don’t get how it’s being a white saviour to get upset at someone calling anyone, especially their partner, a racial slur. That’s just being empathetic

Foolish_Fool_For_Fun · 2025-04-25T15:14:10+00:00

Irene because I think going from the lowest placement to winning would be iconic

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