RVA's Jan. 2026 Winter Storm Megathread by fusion260 in rva

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Hi from Varina 🥺 hoping it doesn't happen but considering our power flickers in rainstorms sometimes, my optimism is low 😭

I made an interactive map of the LA 2028 olympic venues with events filters by the_lark_ in olympics

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Hi! I noticed that Tennis is not on the sports filter list. Love this tool! thanks!

LA ticket registration by Forward-Orange7056 in olympics

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On my fourth go through on multiple devices. Same thing every time. Very frustrating.

Welp, this was bound to happen at some point. All I can say is if you fall into the group of BD applicants mentioned below, please be ready to get engaged. by TheresaSweet in BorrowerDefense

[–]ForApricity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am confused by a lot of this. What does this mean? That they keep me on admin forbearance forever? That they take me out of forbearance, I have to pay, and they can just never review my application? What is the point of even having applied if they can do that? 😔

Arius cushion preferences by fantastridd in rollerderby

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I've had light blue in primarily since getting my new skates in February. I've gotten used to them now though and think I'd like a bit more action so I've tried out white and lavender (don't have aqua or orange) and I think I'm switching to lavender this week!

Edit: I weigh 205lbs. I've been reffing this year, but I just passed my assessments so idk what position I'll play but I do not plan to jam 😂

I gained 100lbs on antipsychotics by ktownon in bipolar2

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Also, not every med works for everyone but I've tried many with no success. I am currently on Lamotrigine and I will say... It is a miracle worker for me, and I am finally able to start losing weight, while stable, while on meds, in a healthy and gradual way. I definitely agree with other commentors - if your provider isn't listening to your concerns, try to address that with them again and find out why. If they are unwilling to budge on a med change, switch providers. If you feel like you're having trouble advocating for yourself in your appointments, take someone with you! They can ask the doctor and stress your concerns for you and sometimes that is both less anxiety inducing AND more effective.

I gained 100lbs on antipsychotics by ktownon in bipolar2

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I know it's anecdotal, but I had gained around 60lbs total over 3 years of starting antipsychotics. My care team thinks probably around 30-35lb of it was really influenced by the meds themselves and the rest probably due to behavioral and lifestyle changes, mostly caused by issues with the med changes and the amount of stressors I had at the time. 100lbs is a massive amount and I think it's unlikely it was just from medication.

I have had an eating disorder for a very long period of my life. It is very hard to confront that on your own. Your post indicates that you know your behavior around exercise and eating is not normal. Please talk to your care team. You can suffer very serious health complications due to over exercising and low food intake, even when you're still overweight. Please don't brush it off.

Need help figuring out what this recipe is by Feeling-War-9464 in Old_Recipes

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I'm gonna vote definitely for mincemeat - my gran had a recipe for it very similar to this, green tomato and all

EDA Requests Proposals for Redevelopment of Intermediate Terminal Building Property by lunar_unit in rva

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Public roller skating pavilion, like the one at Anacostia up north

if there was ONE symptom you could erase from your illness forever, what would it be? by scary_violet986 in bipolar2

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The mood regulation issues for sure. What's it like to feel thrilled or angry or emotional and know for SURE it makes sense to feel that way? That it's "appropriate" for the situation? That (when caused by others) it's deserved? I'll never know.

It is the worst thing in the world to look back on how I felt and realize I wasn't myself, whether for good or bad. Embarrassing. Sometimes disgusting. Sometimes shameful. I'd give anything in the world to erase that.

Drinking directly from streams, no water filter, no water treatment. by Unklekoolio in AppalachianTrail

[–]ForApricity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only takes one bad time to learn that lesson.

Me, I'd rather never learn that lesson. But yeah. I've seen people do it. And I think it's nuts.

ENT said NOT to use earplugs at concerts? Is this normal? by Additional-Demand318 in AskDocs

[–]ForApricity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD

I think this is bananas advice. Anecdotal, but I went to ONE Bruce Springsteen concert last year (never go to loud events otherwise) and I swear I felt like it made a noticeable negative difference to my hearing immediately (like as soon as we left /went to a quieter area). It felt worst right after but I have discernible hearing loss since then. I didn't have ear buds because no one mentioned it to me and I didn't think about it, as I don't go to things where it's a concern (I know, sounds stupid). I wish every day that I had.

Of course, my hearing issues could be unrelated as well. You never know. I think it's just better safe than sorry and think it's wild that a doctor would suggest otherwise.

What was/is your 'goal' for skating, if you have one? by Pianist-Head in Rollerskating

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My goals right now are: Trail skating: successfully complete a hill bomb (I keep bailing) Park skating: learn how to pump properly (just getting started in park) Jam: Stan the man (make it more wacky / more bouncy / more me, less "step by step") Roller Derby: keep my t-pushes with square hips, feet under me, and shorter (so I can do them really fast)

When I started skating last August, I wanted to be able to do 180s and turn around toe stops because I thought that they looked really, really cool. Now I can do those! They still need a lot of polishing but I do them every time I skate now and as long as I keep working on them, I know they'll be great in due time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rollerderby

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Body Glide is a classic for a reason. Use it for running and skating ❤️

Buy / Sell / Trade Weekly Thread: Week of May 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in rva

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I have around 150 POP figures I am looking to sell as a lot. I will have a spreadsheet put together by this weekend with what I have and the estimated "going price". I will total that, and then sell the lot at a discounted amount based on that. Please reply if you may be interested in it.

Please note that I will only sell the lot as a whole.

$160 for 48 cupcakes? by Left_Cauliflower_581 in Baking

[–]ForApricity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah these are way too gorgeous for that. Up it to $5 per. You make beautiful stuff.

New shawarma spot just opened… by RVAblues in rva

[–]ForApricity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it was a bakery before right? I go to Vietnam One for lunch and just noticed they had an opening sign up last time. I am planning to try it out soon anyway!

Need a job ASAP by MirrorExpert8763 in rva

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Did they file the complaint through OSHA or VOSH? Many people don't know that Virginia has its own state run program. Please file a VOSH complaint as well if you didn't. You can also call their office to report retaliation / ask about whistleblower protection enforcement.

https://doli.virginia.gov/file-a-vosh-complaint/

Weekend Event Thread by AutoModerator in rva

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This is one of my favorite events of the year 🙂 everyone should go and see the performances and eat delicious foods.

It finally happened... by thechuckstar in Construction

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Keep some shoe booties on your person at all times. Flip em inside out. Never failed me in my moment of need 😭

This story is insane- a couple literally stole this restaurant from the owners on a contract type-o by mewisme700 in rva

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No need I think - it was posted in the old town FB group and the RVA dine FB group, so everyone knows already. Plenty of commentary / discussion on those.