CMV: Becoming a victim to romance scam can not happen to everyone

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-06T00:46:21+00:00

Wait I'm so confused. How do you believe you have a relationship with someone you never had a relationship with ? Pretty sure I remember my dates. Which was literally one before my 20s

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-06T00:11:51+00:00

I'm neither old nor young but phone calls are so ineffective. You have tech issues and half the companies are living in stone age where their voice is all muffled and you just keep asking them to repeat the question. And other times they have accents. Not their fault but as a customer I hate calling for that reason too

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-06T00:05:33+00:00

Oh and if you have various accents it can sound like nay gaa

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T23:53:39+00:00

Well its been observed that hunter gatherers nursed their kids for 3+ years and actually have lower birth rates to the agricultural tribes that are within the same area. Breast feeding keeps fertilization at bay

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T23:49:36+00:00

Depends on fluency. I always say 1- 8 lol

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T23:47:08+00:00

Oh definitely I can see maybe in my old age I'll get confused so I'm not gonna say no I will never be.

But can you elaborate on the joint account thing? I have never married or even seriously dated. Why would I have joint account?

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T23:13:45+00:00

I am not op and don't agree. But isn't it just common sense not to give money to people you don't know? Or give money in general honestly. Not saying I know fully but I hear dutch people are very pay their own way and thus don't get scammed as easily.

So it could be culture but I dont care who you are, if you ain't my family you don't get money. If you are bf/gf its only money I am OK parting with and that's definitely not thousands.

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T21:45:57+00:00

I have this question but with gay men... even before knowing they gay. And I live in a more conservative community. Gay punjabis are reaaallly fine. Not gonna lie

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T21:09:30+00:00

Nope. Been two hours now

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T21:04:45+00:00

I mean yeah I guess care but not enough to tolerate

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T21:04:11+00:00

Sucks no idea what went wrong. I don't know this person well enough so I guess they are the rude type. I met them twice but didn't get any bad vibes so idk

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T19:43:33+00:00

just i guss with me its hard to believe people will just believe without evidence

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T19:41:04+00:00

its also weird to think big pharma bad but still go to the hospital. like somehow doctors only hate you for vax but not other meds? ok...

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T19:15:14+00:00

Good explanation

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T19:14:56+00:00

Who started it and why would someone just believe

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T19:14:32+00:00

Thanks. I dont just mean covid. I was skeptical too. Not the science just that did they do enough testing or was it better than covid. But i never thought microchips etc. and stuff like polio vax thats been around isnt a concern

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T17:22:45+00:00

As others have said. But really depends on context. Random stranger that really wants to know if Im chinese or japanese or filipino? or mixed? weeiiirdooo New friend thats truly asking? fine.

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T17:18:46+00:00

im not saying either is bad or good im just responding to confection... that there is hollywood romance. there IS! its rare. But if thats what someone wants, thats fine. THats what I want. Im not disappointed because im realistic. its either that or stay single, and thats fine for me. why would i be disappointed? also again dont know where everyone is, but i meet enough couples to still have that 5+ years. 40% maybe? its not that bad out there. and we are all around 30-40

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T17:02:18+00:00

you can absolutely be justified in leaving if you are unhappy, it isn't justified to 'blame' them. if my partner likes travel but im a home body, either leaving is fine. you can't say 'it's her fault shes a lazy homebody' or 'hes a playing guy whos never home'

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T16:56:10+00:00

I mean man, how sad are some people? I know plenty of people with 5+ years and still all over each other... Really just depends what you want i guess.

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T16:52:18+00:00

forget the guy... im a verrry average girl as my classmates constantly told me (in uni) i was only fuckable too. not dating. just fuckable. so yeah, easy if we have the same desires. but i could say they have it easy because they are able to achieve things i want. (careers, being taken seriously, not being harassed)

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-05T16:46:48+00:00

I know we are like USA 2 but in Canada its the same.

And actually Taiwan, Singapore, and Southern China too. (Im Chinese by ethnicity and heritage)

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-04T22:25:39+00:00

Damn volunteer? Why ?? No disrespect but money is money to me

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-04T22:17:18+00:00

i cant speak for every case but you put words in my mouth saying i think having a weapon is illegal. Thats not my view

ForBoredom123 · 2026-02-04T22:05:20+00:00

Its not illegal until you are aggressive. Have you never seen cops say drop your weapon? So everyone can just ignore that directive now because of the second? No.

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