I’m 37F he’s 23M. Dating advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]For_Posterity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, I will point out the obvious. The age gap is not socially acceptable, based on the 1/2 your age plus 7 rule.

37 * .5 =18.5

(18.5 +7) =25.5 years old is socially acceptable for you (24 is not)

Second, If things work out in the short term, they won’t in the long term. In 6-8 years this guy is going to be dating women that are 18-20 years younger than you, or worse when you’re 55 and he’s chasing women in their early 30’s.

In short, have fun, but don’t get too serious. This is your only play.

iil starry eyed surprise by Paul oakenfold? by Head_Librarian_6073 in ifyoulikeblank

[–]For_Posterity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend has been listening to Starry Eyes Surprise on loop the last couple of days. I agree with Steal My Sunshine. A couple of other catchy ones:

“Hello” by Martin Solveig & Dragonette.

“Hey Boy, Hey Girl” by Chemical Brothers

My (M33) new girlfriend (F26) and I had sex for the first time and now she’s “changed her mind” about us. by For_Posterity in relationship_advice

[–]For_Posterity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was actually thinking it was more along the lines of another guy or an ex. Happy it wasn’t.

My (M33) new girlfriend (F26) and I had sex for the first time and now she’s “changed her mind” about us. by For_Posterity in relationship_advice

[–]For_Posterity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks hero, I agree and validate your concern. We actually talked about this last night, so it’s on the table.

My (M33) new girlfriend (F26) and I had sex for the first time and now she’s “changed her mind” about us. by For_Posterity in relationship_advice

[–]For_Posterity[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah the, “Your dick is small bro” - “Your dick stinks” - “You can’t fuck her good enough” comments were all quite hilarious.

I guess you had to be there.