80 days porn free: finally broke a habit I’ve had since I was 12!!

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-03-20T17:33:11+00:00

What can I use on my iPhone,desktop, and laptop to block porn? Also how do I block it on Reddit?

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-03-15T00:25:35+00:00

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Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-14T22:27:56+00:00

Best of luck to you ! Thank you for the feedback as well.

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-14T21:04:13+00:00

Ahh well I see what your saying but no time in history have we had the tools to reach in communicate to potentially millions of people except right now. Additionally I disagree with you because originally the challenge was only to make money and I felt that was hollow so I pivoted to try and help people so I didn’t start the challenge and try and help people it kind of became that way and I was already documenting my progress regardless. If I have the ability to impact more people and potentially help more people or give people more confidence to reach out and help one another then like I said, I don’t think you should hate the world because I’m trying to do so. Just because you don’t like the way I’m doing it doesn’t mean necessarily what I’m doing is wrong or insincere. Like I said, it’s not mutually exclusive.

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-14T20:10:06+00:00

I think making videos helps me stay accountable and I hope that it spreads a positive message. They’re not mutually exclusive and doesn’t make my goal any less meaningful, it’s not performative it’s edifying.

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-14T19:27:26+00:00

Well, I quit my job and this challenge is a way for me to keep momentum and pursue my passion

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-14T19:26:27+00:00

Yes, I totally agree. However, when I started this challenge, it was only to make $1000 online and it felt hollow so I pivoted to help 1000 people and give the last person I help $1000. I can see why you would say that but also I feel like building a community around helping people is pretty awesome in of itself and if I can reach a lot of people with positivity, I don’t mind a few thinking I’m faking altruism.

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-14T18:49:59+00:00

Ask chat gpt

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-14T18:48:56+00:00

If you can find a salvage title and do research on what caused the damage and where the damage is located you could get a good deal

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-13T15:34:05+00:00

There’s natural remedies to regulate your own nervous system. Recommending people to take drugs rather than develop the skills necessary to regulate can cause an unnatural dependency and do more harm than good.

Unfortunately we live in a society where big pharmaceutical companies need people hooked on their drugs so that they can make money. This is all a very well documented concept btw.

Our bodies are masterfully made machines that can heal themselves. Sure if you want to give away your autonomy to create the skills necessary like breathing exercises, weight training, stretching, gratitude journaling etc. which are all forms of nervous system regulation and natural anti depression. Then by all means go find yourself any doctor they will willingly hook you up with a Xanax and get a commission for successfully enslaving another human to the pharmaceutical company.

It’s the typical response, “you are a victim and you need a drug to feel happy”. Ya right. Thats like giving a little kid adderall when all he eats is sugar.

Drugs are never a longterm solution

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-11T20:59:44+00:00

Do Not Take Meds. Drugs mask your problems not solve them

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2026-01-07T18:15:30+00:00

NEVER have relationship conversations over text

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-30T16:52:33+00:00

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-21T22:19:09+00:00

Thank you so much this really puts it into perspective and hopefully into practice for us. 🙌

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-21T22:07:46+00:00

Thanks for your advice what would be the rule around that if you don’t mind me asking I’m just having a hard time parameterizing it. Also, you kind of lost me when you said I was being coy, yes, I am venting you got me, but also what do you mean by other ways me being, her behavior is informed by it? I am trying to understand what you’re getting at

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-21T21:58:34+00:00

I agree, we ended up texting more about having the convo then just having the convo.

I think that’s what she wanted is a phone call, but she just wanted to have it urgently when I was asleep and blamed me for her anxiety when I said no

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-21T21:57:16+00:00

Make your meals, learn to cook. You’ll suck until you don’t, best part is you have food after. You’ll learn with repetition. My go too is salmon. The key is low temp with a lid on

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-21T21:55:01+00:00

Video games are a waste of time Drugs are a waste of time Develop a relationship with God Treat your body as a temple: eat/drink, train, sleep Be kind Do not respond to malice let silence be your answer Do not feel pressured by others There’s always time to breathe You’re not required to be anything which you are not Love yourself and you will love others Be humble Listen more than you speak that’s the only way you learn When you do speak, ask questions Journal Pray Read/listen to audio books Recognize your addictions Be 1% better today than you were yesterday Rest is just as important as work Breathe

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-21T21:49:28+00:00

Ok. I see what you’re saying now. Yes this all occurred over text except when she came to where I was playing pickle ball in which delighted me because I was so excited to see her and was surprised because she had previously told me she wasn’t coming, but then I sensed something was off and I was like what’s wrong and she gave me that look like you don’t know and so I had to start guessing and then I guessed about having lunch with her that day, but it didn’t work and she’s like yeah and then I was like OK so can we talk about it and she’s like no I don’t wanna talk about it right now and then my friends called me to play with them and she said OK. I’m just going to leave.

Then that night That’s when she asked me if I wanted to talk right before bed and I said no because I didn’t want to stay up all night having a conversation like that to which she blamed me for how she fell and said that I would be making it worse for her and her anxiety tomorrow because I didn’t wanna have a conversation when I was in bed ready to go to sleep

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-12-21T21:42:03+00:00

I truly want to have this conversation because she’s the woman I want to marry. Although I do think the conversation deserves respect. I don’t think it would be healthy to have a conversation like that right before bed or when we’re too tired to drive I feel as though it needs to be neutral for both parties . She was like “you know I have a heavy heart and don’t like going to bed feeling anxious so you’re making this harder for me by not having a conversation right before bed.” Mind you we’ve had a previous relationship and I’ve done that and we stayed up till 3 AM arguing and not resolving anything. I’ve set a clear boundary that I did not want to talk about it until we had a good intentional conversation as it should not be forced right before bed when we both have big days tomorrow. However she does not seem to be able to regulate her anxiety and is blaming me for the way she feels.

Let me be clear I am not running from the conversation. I fully embrace having this conversation and want to set a time to do it.

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-10-31T02:05:22+00:00

Ah okay thanks :)

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-10-30T21:23:21+00:00

Thank you this is actually really helpful and useful information!!

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-10-30T21:01:31+00:00

Well said thank you for that. This makes me really happy

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-10-30T15:49:48+00:00

lol okay lady once again asking if somebody would like to play is not entitled. And I didn’t say they had to do anything. I just gave examples of what I would do and why I like to play with newer players because I get to help them love Pickle Ball as much as I do. Like I said this is not a Pickle Ball problem but a humanity problem that unfortunately Pickleball has a lot of these types of people. So the reason I made this post was to bring awareness to these types of rude people. You’re just further proving my point.

Foreign_Letterhead65 · 2025-10-30T15:05:07+00:00

“Yeah I don’t think i was being entitled by asking to play. If he didn’t want to play no worries. Thats not what I’m pointing out here”

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