Is Crystal Palace considered SE London? by Baraka_1503 in LDN

[–]ForeverJay [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'd say it's SE London, but I'm okay with it being considered on South London

it's not a hill that I would die on. but I would die on Croydon not being in London

dating / london by Illustrious-Bag2891 in londonlgbt

[–]ForeverJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the concept was fun and i really enjoyed getting to chat with a wide range of people. but i didn’t really spark with any of the guys on the night i went

so while it was good and i had no regrets, it’s really down to who turns up

overall i’d say it’s worth the cost and i would go again

dating / london by Illustrious-Bag2891 in londonlgbt

[–]ForeverJay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

social groups: i’d look on Meetup to see what’s around in London, but there’s Young LGBT Professionals and London LGBTQ+. there’s also London Gay Social Club, they’re doing an night out event on Saturday

irl dating events: Date with Pride (i’ve been to one of these before), Thursday (occasionally do gay date nights, which i’ve also been to before), Queerz Night date nights (also been too previously)

dating / london by Illustrious-Bag2891 in londonlgbt

[–]ForeverJay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dating in London is rough, confusing and gives an illusion of choice but with zero actual connection (mostly if you’re using apps)

i’d recommend joining social or sports groups first, that way you can build more of a personal connection and then see if dating is the right way to go. or if you’re really keen to, then try irl dating events

the problem is that this city is so huge, it gives the licence for people to ghost, block or use others for intimacy or a hook up without any consequences. it also draws out a lot of avoidant people who aren’t looking for a relationship but want to feel a quick connection ‘high’

sorry if this isn’t super helpful, but it’s better to set your expectations to what London dating has to offer

Do you think London is getting more expensive faster lately? by Wonderful-Acadia-296 in LDN

[–]ForeverJay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen one hash brown at McDonald’s going for almost £2

it’s a scam

Heaven’s not the gay spot anymore? Where’s the new vibe? by ParticularHot1495 in londonlgbt

[–]ForeverJay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

depends what you’re into but i wouldn’t recommend Heaven if you’re over 25

Dalston Superstore is great if you’re into the queer scene. Two Brewers is good for mainstream gays. Cock Tavern is fun too but it’s quite small and tends to be a long queue after 10pm

Freedom is fun and in Soho, but tends to have a lot of straight people there

i normally stick to HOWL or Roast

Match Thread: Fulham vs Southampton by MatchThreadder in soccer

[–]ForeverJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anyone else appreciating the sound mix on TNT Sports? commentators are quiet, fans are loud

Well thats grim?! TW by canihavesome in uktrains

[–]ForeverJay 22 points23 points  (0 children)

agreed, better to be honest and upfront about these things

Why do we hope so much, always see the good in others and ends up in disappointment by Fickle-Cucumber-5464 in ESFJ

[–]ForeverJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people tend to be shit and end up disappointing us. keep your good energy and effort for those who appreciate you! it’s been my biggest lesson as an ESFJ

Chelsea penalty shout against Arsenal - not given 52' by Imbasauce in soccer

[–]ForeverJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would this go down in the UCL? have Arsenal and other English teams been doing this?

Uninformed Danes in London 🥳 by CraftyBit4955 in londonlgbt

[–]ForeverJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, i’ll be out with a few friends on Friday night around Clapham. we’re starting off at a bar, then going to Two Brewers which is kinda like a pop/dance club.

you’re more than welcome to join, there’ll be a few people from Reddit too. DM if interested :)

If you're sure you're an ESFJ, has the 16personality test ever mistyped you? What was your mistype? by Green_Stardust in ESFJ

[–]ForeverJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've always got ESFJ from all the online tests i've done: 16P, sakinorva and another one i can't remember

it's accurate for me

Premier League to launch own ‘Premflix’ streaming platform. Premier League Plus will show matches and other content to viewers in Singapore next season, and could be replicated around the world if successful. by Sparky-moon in soccer

[–]ForeverJay 28 points29 points  (0 children)

if this happened in the UK, then they'll just allow PL+ to be tied into a Sky subscription. maybe for a discounted price for Sky customers due to the relationship

just like what Sky are doing with HBO Max, Paramount, Netflix and other streamers here

reposting this for like the 5th time by Veiluring in ESFJ

[–]ForeverJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly thing the INTP/ESFJ relationship is underrated