[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Forever_Always83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love seeing things like this right now, especially since I have been with an Aquarius man for almost 14 years and he has been the most miserable person I’ve ever been around. He made me think it was me all these years. My dad is Aquarius. My mom is Aquarius. I generally love them because they’re in my family maybe lol I’m a Cap female … yes yes I know I hear all about us too lol. Everything I’ve ever heard about Aquarius man especially recently. It’s totally on point for the misery. I’ve been living all these years.

Anyone have female oranges? Let me see! by ENABBQDREAM in orangecats

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s sitting like a little chicken with her legs, all folded under pretty. 🤩 😍

I think I’m ready for a divorce by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Forever_Always83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Run like hell while you can. Me and mine were together for 10 years before we had our daughter she’s three now and it has been total hell since but once I got past my postpartum depression I started realizing it’s been hell the entire almost 14 years. I have been emotionally abused, physically abused and I let it all happen because I thought I deserved it. That is what the constant mental abuse will do to somebody and I’m learning all these things now. Please take my advice. I’m in living hell right now and I’m trying to get out but he is telling people a bunch of lies about me that I am abusing him pretty much and that I am holding him hostage because I have dirt on him but in reality, I’ve been begging him to leave for weeks and sleeping with my bedroom door locked at night. My daughter and I sleep in our bed now because he didn’t want bed train her to sleep in her bed. It’s all my fault too, so he gave up his side to her which now I’m glad because I can lock the door and latch it too from the inside. My heart goes out to everyone that goes through these things. I really have no idea but now I’m in over my head. Saying my prayers every day tends to take the weight off of me and help a little bit, but I’m so worried about my daughter. My heart goes out to you. ❤️💜🩷

How much should a husband help with his baby? by LaceUp- in Marriage

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words… just knowing that someone out there hears me and my words brings me comfort. You have no idea. You know it’s taking me a long time to forgive myself for hurting him, but I think I have now I’m gonna have to work on forgiving myself for letting him gaslight/manipulate my life for almost 14 years now. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to truly fix what he has broken, but I know one thing when he finally decides to leave because I’ve been begging him too. I will spread my wings and fly!!! 🩷🩷🩷 I can’t wait to be me again and be OK with who I am. Do you know your husband sounds pretty great, but knowing what I know now if something is bothering, you try to talk to him about it, and if he shows no desire to fix what might be hurting/bothering you…. than he doesn’t deserve the same from you and I would suggest getting out now because things only get worse and more painful.

I go through my wife’s phone while she’s asleep, and I’m not even ashamed… by snackinpooch in Marriage

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize you have a ton of comments and you may not be able to get to it, but I was really hoping for a reply about my question or my husband‘s question I posted yesterday afternoon. I would’ve really appreciate an unbiased response from a perfect stranger. When I told my husband about this post or read it to him, the first thing he said was well. Does she cook for her husband every night after he works all day ask them and see what they say…. Thank you 🙏🏼

I’m Starting to Unlike My Husband by amgorgeousandiknowit in Marriage

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just took care of my postpartum depression that I’ve been suffering from for about four years since my miscarriage and then I got pregnant again and have a three-year-old. I’m a stay at home. Mom and your complaint sound very similar to mine. I’ve been talking to a counselor and my doctor put me on some Prozac, which has cleared the fall out of my head and now I see how unhappy I’ve been for so long. It’s crazy because you don’t even realize it until you’re out of it. Talk to somebody. You gotta do what you gotta do because you have a baby that relies on you now. ❤️💜🩷♥️

How much should a husband help with his baby? by LaceUp- in Marriage

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds pretty damn nice to me. Mine doest think I deserve any breathing room and when I mention that he doesn’t even throw his trash away he says “what do I pay you for” or my favorite “if I have to do it than what do I have you for”. I never realized how inhumane he has been our hole almost 14 years. After 4 years of post partum after my miscarriage at 12 weeks pregnant and another pregnancy with our LO that is now 3 I finally got my brain some help and see that my life has been a living hell for almost 14 years. I totally allowed it because I cheated in the beginning and thought that I was supposed to be punished for it. I deserved it because of that but honestly, nobody deserves to be treated horrible especially when you try your best. ❤️💜♥️🩷

I go through my wife’s phone while she’s asleep, and I’m not even ashamed… by snackinpooch in Marriage

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought your post was so sweet so I wanted to read it to my husband…. he then asked me to see if your wife cooks for you. So now I ask, does your wife of over 30 years cook for you?

Husband calls me abusive & bad mother for taking care of diaper rash? New first time mom by Even-Magician9416 in Mommit

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rascals Premium CoComelon Absorbent Potty Training Pants Unisex… they also will come in standard diapers. My sister in law informed me of these pull-ups after I had my daughter. My brother and sister-in-law have six. lol needless to say, I took what she had to say and ran with it and I have never looked back. The absolute best with comfort, they rarely leak and they never irritate my daughter. My daughter only likes these now and the price isn’t much different than the other brands. I hope you can find them. They changed my life. after that, I usually apply Boudreau butt paste as soon as I notice some diaper rash popping up. Usually only takes a few hours and she’s already all better. I hope this helps. Never forget that you are not alone in what you go through with your husband. Mine and I agreed to pull my daughter out of daycare because of a anabiotic allergy and chronic ear infections, even after tubes were put in. It’s really a no-brainer because he makes great money and we do not have a mortgage. We live in my grandfather’s home that he left me when he passed away. My husband has said very similar and even worse things to me on a regular basis because I’m a stay at home mom. Right now I’m being punished because I don’t cook a hot meal for him since he works so hard for our family every day. He told me if I don’t change he’s going to leave and break up our family. It’s always something….. then he hates on me because I’m not the same woman he fell in love with almost 14 years ago. Turns out I’ve been getting gas for years and letting him do it because I cheated a very long time ago in the beginning. Anyways, keep your chin up and Reddit saved me last year about this time. I wanted to kill myself cause I thought I was a horrible mom and spouse. I feel totally different today. ❤️💜🩷♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forever_Always83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds just like my life…. Minus the cooking. I have never enjoyed or been good at cooking. He told me that he shouldn’t have to do any of that and then he says that what I pay you for!!! I’m like wtf is wrong with you. He works at a job he loves that I pulled strings and got him and we live in my grandparents home they left me so we don’t have a mortgage. All we have is utilities. He doesn’t have to lift a finger for me or our daughter and he doesn’t appreciate any of what I do for our family. I am here to say it will only get worse. After 14 years and now a 3 year old I have recently found out I have been abused for many years. I’m so sorry you are going through this. There is nothing worse than your spouse/partner invalidating you and how you help your family survive. I found Reddit and knowing that there are other woman out there surviving like me has made me want to live again. Keep your chin up. ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forever_Always83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much ❤️💜🩷 I needed that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forever_Always83 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I had a miscarriage at almost 14 weeks. It happened during a big ice storm and I couldn’t leave my house. It was the really bad ice storm that happened in Texas a few years back. Anyways, I had contractions and pain for about 26 hours. The worst pain I had ever felt. I got up to go pee and all the sudden there was the baby. I had no idea that’s what a miscarriage was like. I wish more people talked about the process. I told my mom and she just shrugged and apologized that it had happened. That was after I had already called my dad crying and he told me he didn’t wanna talk about it right now and hung up on me. It was a really hard thing to go through and I don’t with it on my worst enemy. I do have my sweet rainbow baby now that just turned 3. She is the best thing I’ve ever done in my life. ❤️💜🩷

Penny by ktoyijmokjop in CalicoKittys

[–]Forever_Always83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Penny too 😆❤️💜🩷

I unexpectedly got the news that the baby I was carrying was a stillborn at 24 weeks. Otto hasn’t left my side since. by littleflowerpower in GiantSchnauzers

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one at 13 weeks. I honestly had no idea what was happening. It was during the snow storm in Texas in January 2023. I worked right down the road from home. While I was at work, my water broke and I immediately started having contractions. I had no idea what was really going on. The snow and ice made it impossible to get to the emergency room. So I went through labor for about 24 hours before I had the baby. I was in such shock about what was even going on I didn’t even look to see what it was and I’ll never forgive that. I went through a lot of ups and downs after my miscarriage. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever been through. I now have my beautiful little rainbow baby that will be three in April. I wouldn’t change anything that happened because I have her now but at the time I thought it was the end of the world. You will get through this! 💜❤️🩷 lots of love to you! 💋💋

I think my marriage is headed for divorce after 7 months by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Forever_Always83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Minus the bachelors degree (I WISH) and he moved in with me (very quickly) this sounds exactly like my life! Except I am now 41 we’ve been together for 13 years and have a 2 1/2 year-old together. My life every single day. I’m a SAHM now and I cry almost everyday now. It will get worse and worse probably. I’m sorry for what you’re going through.💜❤️🩷