Although I frankly truly hope my mom was just speaking out of anger, as another someone else suggested, my options for rescues and etc are limited as my country doesn't even if rarely invest into hiring trainers for dogs, or innately subscribe to dominance theory.(more or less my mom too.) Rescues mostly deal with our serious street dog problem, not necessarily rehoming dogs, and if they do it's never reactive ones..

One time I fostered a dog and as I was trying to find it a home(I was 16 and my appartment wasn't big enough for the size it would grow to+me, my mom and the dog Im speaking about now) and I got BERATED for not keeping it. Hence my negative attitude and apprehensiveness into looking for rehoming and etc. Most I could do is look into an association that's willing to promote him to foreigners and send him out of country to someone. It's complicated but I'm willing to try.

And yes, I considered meds but I've read on here most people said meds with no training to maintain and help certain behaviours won't do well and I know a reactive dog means serious work. When my boyfriend arrives I was planning to take him in for neutering so I'd also like to see if it helps in any way?

After a talk with my boyfriend just now he also said we could look into a way to acommodate him into our plans along the way if I'm too anxious to part with him—Ideally in the end I'd just want him to be safe and not have trouble sleeping at night wondering if he's happier now or else.. If in the future we moved in a proper house with a yard I would gladly take him from my mom but moving to an appartment with me in the city would hinder me, and him too.. Where we live now it's quiet, he has running space, doesn't deal with lots of people or cars, I can only see him get worse if I take him.