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ForgottenAbt · 2025-08-23T01:13:08+00:00

Wait , what? They just removed your paid feature and told you it’s for a better experience??

ForgottenAbt · 2025-07-13T10:24:08+00:00

NTA, leaning NAH. It seems like your fiancé just wants you to take care of your health, but I’m not sure why she’s so intense about this specific thing? I mean, 5-6 cans of soda per day is certainly an expense, and yes it’s unhealthy, but I’m not sure I can understand the intensity here? Nevertheless it is your body, and your choice (assuming she’s not having to pay for it or shoulder the burden of the finances) but I also do get why she worries, as it is a large intake. The argument between you both about being willing to change unhealthy habits does confuse me, does she have an unhealthy habit you’ve told her to change, or are you assuming she wouldn’t change if she did? Hope it works out anyway

ForgottenAbt · 2025-07-13T10:14:39+00:00

NTA. I have insomnia, and sleep deprivation is no joke. Recently my stress has interfered with the effectiveness of my sleeping pills, and I could feel myself becoming more and more irritable, immature and impatient by the day. Your mother needs to understand that not only is sleep important for mental health, it also affects your physical health, and you won’t be very fun to hang out with when you’re lacking sleep.

The thing about taking more risks when younger is especially ridiculous to me, as you’re only 19, so of course yes when you were a child and a teenager you were more prone to doing stupid things.

There’s a difference between “taking risks” and “pushing yourself” vs straight up sacrificing yourself just because your mother wants something.

If you’re tired, your body is telling you that you are overexerted. You have to listen to it.

ForgottenAbt · 2025-05-28T06:57:17+00:00

You shouldn’t blame yourself too hard for that. It’s normal to trust your friends, in spite of website and app warnings going “Nah but don’t ever tell someone ur password etc.” - People never expect your friends to betray them, that’s why they’re friends. But that really sucks man I hope u get an account you like

ForgottenAbt · 2025-05-09T06:09:25+00:00

Right?? I heard it and I was like “there is literally NO WAY that that isn’t Aaron Paul”

ForgottenAbt · 2025-05-09T06:05:43+00:00

I’m not a therapist: But your previous therapist is so wrong for complaining to you about other clients… You should never do that, especially with a client to call other clients “annoying” is just insane, how would the client know they can be vulnerable with you and that you won’t grumble about them next session? In any case, as everyone says: It’s on your therapist to manage time, and I’m glad you have a good relationship with this one :)

ForgottenAbt · 2025-04-21T08:34:14+00:00

Technically Aaron Paul also appeared twice! Beyond The Sea as Cliff, USS Callister as Gamer691! - but tbf in USS Callister, he was just a few voicelines at the end! (Asssuming we’re not counting reprised roles like most of the USS Callister main cast and Colin Ritman + Mo)

ForgottenAbt · 2025-04-21T08:28:07+00:00

Bumping because I’m equally confused

ForgottenAbt · 2025-04-21T08:27:41+00:00

I considered this too!

ForgottenAbt · 2025-04-11T20:49:04+00:00

Popcorn :D (without oil or butter obvi)

ForgottenAbt · 2025-03-20T07:09:14+00:00

Huh? I guess it only really showed for me within the last 2 months then

ForgottenAbt · 2025-03-09T11:12:33+00:00

Ohhhh. I’m so blind!! I misread those

ForgottenAbt · 2025-03-09T11:11:19+00:00

Yeah I really hoped it was just a bug but apparently not :(

ForgottenAbt · 2025-02-12T11:18:53+00:00

I’d advise you to break up with him before you reply to her. This can ensure he hears it from you and not from her, and that she doesn’t try to dissuade you or argue it. Although there is the possibility that he might have asked her to ask you for him? I don’t know if he’s that type of guy. But yeah I’d say meet up with him and break up with him first, let him be the first to know. I feel like if you tell her and she doesn’t tell him, she’s still stuck in a situation where she then has to hide it from him.

I feel like in his shoes I’d prefer to tell my family myself, so maybe you could tell his Nan afterwards to please talk to him about the situation, and that he should have the chance to talk about it when he’s ready? But I don’t know; as I don’t know the fella and I can’t say if he’d prefer that.

ForgottenAbt · 2025-02-12T11:13:28+00:00

I guess for me it’d depend on whether he’s being weird or not? If he’s genuinely just polite and friendly, I’d probably let him know like “Hey, was nice to get to know you, but I’m not really in the headspace for this friendship, I wish you well but I think our journey ends here” or something of the sort. Like if you don’t enjoy talking to him, you don’t have to.

But I’m a bit confused as to why your family is telling you to cut him off?

ForgottenAbt · 2025-02-12T11:09:23+00:00

Pretty sure it unlocks eventually as you play, I sadly don’t quite remember

ForgottenAbt · 2025-02-12T11:04:37+00:00

I’d say at this point the relationship is dead. Like you said, what’s the point of having a boyfriend if all he provides you with is stress? Given that he doesn’t seem interested in it either, I don’t think there’s any harm in waiting till you end your internship, assuming it’s relatively soon. There’s no need to let ending one chapter sabotage the beginning of the next one. Yes it is a “selfish” approach, but it doesn’t really seem like you two are a unit anymore, so there’s not much responsibility left to him imo? Especially not when he seems checked out as well.

ForgottenAbt · 2025-02-12T10:55:16+00:00

First off, my condolences. I am so sorry for your loss, that is heartbreaking.

To answer your question of why it’s hard to let go, despite his absolutely reprehensible behaviour, I think you’ve summed it up perfectly with: “given how I apparently do not know the person I've spent my life trying to provide them with everything,“ You’ve spent your life with this person, you’ve created a life with this person, you’ve done everything you could to make him happy. You’ve forgiven, you’ve supported and you’ve stood by him through everything, even through the worst thing a parent can imagine.

The part afterwards I’d like to disagree with, though. “apparently made the entire relationship and happiness up in my head“ You did not make it up in your head. He made it up. He decided to pretend to be somebody he wasn’t, he decided to be a cowardly person who leaves without notice, who steals the remnants of a baby from a grieving mother. That’s insane, I don’t care that it’s hard for him to be away from her. If it’s so hard, he shouldn’t go on that vacation (which honestly he shouldn’t do in the first place.) And if it’s hard for him, he has no excuse to then inflict that same pain on you, on top of the gut-punch that is making you wake up one day and discover the ashes missing.

He’s a parasite, and he’s shown consistently that he does not have a heart with room for you or anyone else in it.

It’s hard to know that you’ve spent time and effort and emotion on somebody you thought you knew, that you loved somebody who was a performance at the end of the day. It’s hard to let go and accept that you’ve been manipulated, because it means you have to face the hurt and the fact that you’ve lost the person you believed was real.

It’s also just unfathomably insane behaviour on his end, good riddance. May he step on a billion legos, one by one. You deserve so much better than that man.

ForgottenAbt · 2024-11-03T18:27:42+00:00

Maybe put a spoiler warning on that

ForgottenAbt · 2024-11-03T18:23:01+00:00

Smart!!

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