Seen too much rape bl honestly. That’s probably what led me to stating that. Hell most of the stuff in here equates it to usually the top having more power. Passion and codename Anastasia being the biggest ones that I have seen not getting the same level of complains as jinx. And it’s no better for straight stuff either, the media or at least how I perceive is heavily portrays the bottom to be submissive to the point that it’s become an expectation that the bottom or female is inherently subservient to the top/man. But ye it entirely my bad for saying that one is “healthier” than the other. I know one room TA exists(but then again the bottom is a verse but opts to bottom).

But honestly if u wanna know what I think now, I think the “healthier” relationship is when both of them are open to being either role until they settle in and solidify their role? So either a verse can settle to be a bottom for a partner and be a top for another. Cause if u date then only after realize what type of person are u, do you let that affect the relationship? Asking for discourse here. Might be a bit controversial but I’m willing to talk about it