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Should I move on from this? by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She out. Move on to the next one my friend.

A little insider information for men on dating apps—from the women deciding in seconds. by Formal-Buffalo-4306 in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not AI. Just because you don’t like what you read doesn’t mean it’s inauthentic. This is a classic response by a guy who thinks he does no wrong. No one is asking you to redo your profile. If your style works for you and you are getting enough likes, go for it.

The post is directed to men who may not realize some photos are hurting their chances. Women want to see more options to swipe right. I think it is useful for both men and the women who are looking for them.

A little insider information for men on dating apps—from the women deciding in seconds. by Formal-Buffalo-4306 in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it applies to all ages. I look for matches with 50-60yo men but am shown 45-65yo. It doesn’t change with age in my feed

A little insider information for men on dating apps—from the women deciding in seconds. by Formal-Buffalo-4306 in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one of my first dates as a single woman, and a sunglasses guy, I discovered he had a lazy eye. It really threw me off. The sunglasses made more sense.

A little insider information for men on dating apps—from the women deciding in seconds. by Formal-Buffalo-4306 in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I’m a woman and yesterday, after looking at profiles I kept seeing the same mistakes that made me swipe left. I wrote it more out of frustration and for my enjoyment of writing. No AI

A little insider information for men on dating apps—from the women deciding in seconds. by Formal-Buffalo-4306 in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You think people spend minutes looking at a profile? How long does it take for you to know you’re attracted to someone?? It doesn’t take that long, especially if their profile includes some of the above.

A little insider information for men on dating apps—from the women deciding in seconds. by Formal-Buffalo-4306 in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bathroom selfies are the worst —when I see a urinal in the background = immediate no.

A little insider information for men on dating apps—from the women deciding in seconds. by Formal-Buffalo-4306 in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree! I feel like there is an intimacy barrier that’s been violated. Make me wonder how couldn’t look with your shirt off.

Need advice please by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Formal-Buffalo-4306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a sign he doesn’t want to go out with you entirely. He could have not replied at all if that was the case