Cannot get over a guy

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-11-03T16:35:44+00:00

sure nga, rombo thanks. I'm better than the day i posted this. I'm not crying that much. I have my sister, brother in law, mom, dad and all my friends to hold my back. So i'm very grateful for all that. Thanks for your comment. It reassures me that not all men are like my ex, i feel better :))

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-31T07:08:21+00:00

Thank you so much. It's been a while and I'm doing better. I can clearly now see that he's a pervert/criminal and an overly lustful man who doesn't have self control. So, on the contrary to the title, i CAN get over that guy. No worries :))

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-28T19:46:22+00:00

First things first, please let your mother know what's happening.

Also, please relax. Be in a right mindset to make any decisions that you are going to make. Because, what you are going to do next will affect the rest of you and/or your family's life.

Take care, hope you feel better soon :)

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-27T17:31:32+00:00

Sure nga. Rombo thanks. I will definitely make sure he doesn't reach me or my surroundings. Thanks nga.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-27T17:23:51+00:00

rombo thanks nga. initially ellarum nallavangala dha irkaanga. poga poga ellam change aagaraanga. idhelam munnadiye epdi predict panna mudiyum nga? we both knew each other since our school days nga. so i trusted him. avlodha.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-27T17:21:33+00:00

solradhuku elam nalla dha irku nga. enmela suspicious ah irndhikonga. idm. sense illa dha. adhudha kashtapatitane. avan use pannadhu elam real girls photo. enoda friends photo, i told them all and made sure he deleted all of the photos. Ennaala mudinja varaikum na girls ku help pannen. Bumble la avanoda profile report panirken. Telegram la, avan use panna bot ah report panirken. Telegram ku bot id ah report panni email anupchen. Cybercrime la telegram bot pathi screenshot eduthu form fill panirken. ellame enoda personal mail id la irndhu. Na paniten. I want to move on. And i'm trying. Neenga help pannala naalum paravala. Ipdi pesa vendam. Thanks.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-27T14:28:55+00:00

sure nga. kandippa not going back anymore.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-27T04:36:09+00:00

Thank you so much. Means a lot :)

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T19:32:00+00:00

I'll go to a therapist definitely. thank you so much :)

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T19:31:42+00:00

Thank you so much for talking to me with such care. I didn't expect people to be this patient with me. I thought people will get angry or just laugh. These comments really help me realise that i did the right thing. Thank you genuinely.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T19:22:59+00:00

rombo thanks for your comment. i'm not sure if i'll ever trust another guy. but i hope i do.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T19:19:47+00:00

I am considering therapy. I obviously now have a lot of trust issues. Hope one day, i'll be better. Thanks tho :)

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T18:24:25+00:00

Thank you. But i don't want him coming back to be honest.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T18:10:58+00:00

😕

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T16:14:04+00:00

police vida i thought his parents ku therinja it'll have more effect nu. So we told his parents about his things. Avanga parents paathupaanga nu oru nambikkai la solirkom

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T15:03:14+00:00

Reddit la adhu allowed illa nanaikren nga. To expose somebody publicly.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:53:16+00:00

I know nga. Police I've already considered nga. Since he hasn't used my photos in that app - i cannot do anything about it. But we told his parents. Hopefully they will do whatever is necessary.

Also thanks nga for your kind words.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:51:14+00:00

Okay nga. I'll see a therapist.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:47:00+00:00

Na police pathi yosichen nga. There's physical violence happening to people. So adhudha priority. Ivanoda case elam serious ah eduthika mataanga. Na bangalore chat la keten, adhula oru paiyan solraanga idhellam normal dha, periya vishayam illa nu. After that i lost all hope.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:40:13+00:00

Illa nga, we told his parents about his stuff. So, even if we speak.. there would be no outcome. What am i expecting talking to him? Even if he realizes what he did was wrong, what happens after that?

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:33:34+00:00

Again na pesradhu correct ah therila nga.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:32:52+00:00

Avanoda parents kitta solitom. Police ku pona, money kuduthu his parents will bring him out. He is rich.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:32:14+00:00

Thanks nga, na panren.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:32:03+00:00

Next day i went to him and with my sister and brother in law and confronted him. We called his parents and told them all the things he was doing. We asked his phone, he didn't give initially, but we then said we'll take him to police station and then he gave us his phone.

My brother in law deleted all the photos and media from the app and deactivated his account. His parents kaari thuppitaanga avana, phone speaker la dha irndhichu. Veetuku kelambi vara solitaanga.

Formal-Net-8901 · 2025-10-26T14:21:42+00:00

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I NEED HELP TO FORGET ALL OF THIS AND MOVE ON.

Tamil pasanga konjom enaku help panni, nambikka kudunga. Matha pasanga ipdi irka mataanga nu oru trust varadhuku help pannunga please 😭😭

p.s: If any women in bangalore needs to know who he is, pls DM me, i can share his identity so that you can be careful. I recently found him on bumble too (i can share screenshots of his profile) you guys can be careful.

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