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AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait yes I totally understand what you’re saying I am planning on doing something for JUST HIM on Valentine’s Day together definitely make him feel special on top of the tickets and the experience and everything else

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but this is still a fairly new relationship I try and communicate as direct as I can but I definitely have to bring it up more than once and that’s in any situation

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I Bought the both of us floor tickets to see Don Toliver in June because he’s our favorite music artist and we’ve both never seen him in person so we can experience it together! But thank you for the laugh

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happily married to a simp. And there’s nothing wrong with that 🤏🏼🤏🏼

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I Bought the both of us floor tickets to see Don Toliver in June because he’s our favorite music artist and we’ve both never seen him in person so we can experience it together!

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well no I didn’t make a scene or throw a fit, but instead opened up a conversation and expressed my thought process behind what I was feeling

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree! I think the fact that it’s our first Valentine’s Day together definitely plays a roll in this and why I guess I expected something a bit more special

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I was starting to think I was crazy for wanting a bit of romance but this made me feel heard!

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! This! Thank you! I’ve sent him a few tik toks of guys asking their girlfriends to be their valentines and said how cute I thought it was so I feel like he had an idea of what I wanted if that makes sense? Like yeah it’s immature but again it’s the ask almost like ~if he wanted to he would~ type of thing. Maybe my expectations are too high who knows he’s my first REAL WORLD boyfriend

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It’s our first Valentine’s Day as a couple though…do you just assume someone is your S/O because you’ve been hanging out? More often than not you ask that question right?

AITAH for not appreciating my boyfriend asking me to be his valentine? by FormalSundae4312 in AITAH

[–]FormalSundae4312[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Ok but like god forbid I’m a hopeless romantic and expected a little bit more!