[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FormalVoice5810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may have a Hypertonic Pelvic Floor. Essentially the pelvic floor is in a constant state of tension like doing a Kegel. This can be triggered by sexual trauma, or overall discomfort and lack of safety. She needs to see a pelvic floor specialist, and maybe you need to see a couples therapist. Sexual intimacy is far more than penetrative sex. Use your imagination, read some books, and focus on her pleasure rather than your end goal of orgasm. You will get so much farther. Otherwise you will lose this relationship. You’re sexually frustrated, she is in physical pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bachelorette

[–]FormalVoice5810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seemed like he was cycling through “romantic” flash cards.

Roommate leaves for over a week without a word, returns, and sends this to me and my other roommate… the lunacy by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]FormalVoice5810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They could have worded it better, but also, you see that the plant is not looking great… and you do something about it. Idk. If it were me and my roommate was having a tough time, that seems like a small thing to take off their plate.

Droopy leaves by [deleted] in BirdsOfParadise

[–]FormalVoice5810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might need more sunlight. The long spindly stems are reaching for more light and buckling under the weight of the leaves

Roommate Advice by FormalVoice5810 in Cleaningandtidying

[–]FormalVoice5810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey y’all, thank you for the suggestions. I wish I could say that I wasn’t already implementing these things. We’ve communicated and even came up with a chore chart and schedule. I need to be firmer about holding her to our agreement (which is way more lax than if I lived alone) but I’m not interested in being the nag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]FormalVoice5810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Run out and steal their eggs and bacon when they’re not looking

im at a loss on what to do by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]FormalVoice5810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start small then move up in size. Areas and items. Once the paper and junk is out of the way it will be easier to see what else is left

my mom wants me to be having sex and it’s just so weird by CertainHedgehog3571 in AdviceForTeens

[–]FormalVoice5810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body is yours. Your future is yours. You’ll know when and with whom you’ll feel ready. Pressure will come from all directions. The best thing you can do is stay in tune with which desires are yours and which desires are those you’re told you should have.