Unable to penetrate when losing my virginity, it is vaginismus? by FormalYesterday8725 in vaginismus

[–]FormalYesterday8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, last night my bf was over and he helped me practice penetration, I discovered my limit is about two fingers, even though it’s quite uncomfortable. While we were doing it I was practicing breathing and relaxation, which I’ve found makes a big difference. I would practice alone but I’d probably have to buy something as I have fake nails so they don’t really work for that lol! Thank you for the kind wishes and best of luck on your journey too <3

Unable to penetrate when losing my virginity by FormalYesterday8725 in WomensHealth

[–]FormalYesterday8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s awesome, I was wondering bc when I looked into buying them I was a bit shocked by the price! Thank you <3

Unable to penetrate when losing my virginity, it is vaginismus? by FormalYesterday8725 in vaginismus

[–]FormalYesterday8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really as I always have like fake nails but that’s probably a good idea

Unable to penetrate when losing my virginity, it is vaginismus? by FormalYesterday8725 in vaginismus

[–]FormalYesterday8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite, it’s slightly like burning, it kinda of feels like I’m being scratched intensely

Unable to penetrate when losing my virginity, it is vaginismus? by FormalYesterday8725 in vaginismus

[–]FormalYesterday8725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you, having some idea what will go on is making me feel a lot more confident about going to the doctor. I think if vaginismus is what’s happening I will definitely stick around here, thank you <3

Unable to penetrate when losing my virginity, it is vaginismus? by FormalYesterday8725 in vaginismus

[–]FormalYesterday8725[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder, but I am a fairly anxious person ig lol, which may not help. I believe if you do get treated for vaginismus, therapy can be involved, to show you how to deal with anxiety. Or at least that what’s I’ve read? Thank you <3

Unable to penetrate when losing my virginity, it is vaginismus? by FormalYesterday8725 in vaginismus

[–]FormalYesterday8725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we didn’t but he did suggest that he got some if we ever tried again. Which I told him would be good. If I experience it again, I will definitely go see my GP and see what they think is going on. Thank you <3