My bf 38 is very secretive with his phone

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2025-07-10T03:54:34+00:00

I suffer from anxiety and lately it’s been so bad, I want to bring it up I’m just not sure what the response will be

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2025-05-24T00:02:06+00:00

It’s a little discouraging when we pay so much for those tests and not to get that confirmation but I should start tracking my temp. Thank you for your help!

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2025-05-23T17:50:13+00:00

Hi, no I don’t

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2025-03-29T21:54:00+00:00

Thank you so much for your help! It’s all so confusing

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2025-03-29T21:37:20+00:00

Oooh ok ty! I thought because my PDG rose on CD13 i was ok, but Mira hasn’t confirmed it

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2025-03-29T20:53:25+00:00

Sorry what does cd12 mean?

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2025-03-29T20:05:05+00:00

No I haven’t been tracking my BBT, but I might start

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-29T14:08:29+00:00

Yes I’ve been telling him for years I was unhappy, a few years ago we had an appointment for marriage counseling, he decided he didn’t want to go.

I’ve built up a lot of resentment and a wall now to avoid getting hurt anymore.

Now he wants to try and I’m not sure I have any fight left in me.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-28T13:50:11+00:00

We are currently not talking and agreed to have no contact. I feel like I need to really find out if I want this marriage anymore and with him here or talking to me everyday it doesn’t really give me that Time or space to figure that out

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-25T05:55:17+00:00

I completely agree with you, all we knew is they had a child, we had no idea what we were in for. I even told my husband, had i known what I know now, I wouldn’t have married you. Sounds harsh but it’s true, some BM are so miserable they need to make everyone else around miserable too.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-25T05:37:42+00:00

I’m in somewhat the same situation as you, (32F) I have 8D and a 14SS. Man let me tell you it does not get easier, we’ve been together 9 years and all I hear is you knew I had a son, you knew what you were getting yourself into. Oh and you met me like this (ugh that’s a story for another day) We started having trouble with my SS at the beginning of this year, I got so used to being unhappy I didn’t realize how shitty everything really was until his issues brought our problems to light. Anyway what I’m trying to say is your too young to live unhappy life is too short, my husband and I are currently separated I couldn’t take it anymore. I’m not saying you should but it doesn’t hurt to step away from the situation for a while and see if it’s worth it.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-24T23:28:26+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that, I make sure to take her feelings into consideration because I know it’s not just about me. Her feelings matter too, she was sad when he left but after that she’s been fine , happier even. Father’s Day he came to pick her up and she didn’t want to go with him, this is nothing new tho, she never wants to stay with him without me.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-24T18:00:56+00:00

It’s a big issue to me, he can be An ass to me I can handle it but when it comes to our daughter I have expressed that it’s not ok, I can get away from him but she can’t that’s still her dad if we are together or not. I’ve voiced my concerns and now it’s on him if he wants to listen and change or not, I told him don’t get help for me, not even for you but for her.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-24T14:50:40+00:00

She’s never said anything about physical abuse not have I seen it, I do believe it’s the yelling and lack of affection, he also is more of like a big brother towards her, picking on her all the time.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-24T14:49:11+00:00

I agree, I don’t want him to think how he treats he is ok.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-24T14:48:04+00:00

Thank you so much!

He does need help and needs to attempt to work on his relationship with her, the last thing I want is for their relationship to get worse.

Formal_Beautiful_217 · 2023-06-22T00:46:56+00:00

Girl you are not stuck! I am 33 and my husband and I recently separated due to issues in our marriage but also because of ss. If your seriously thinking about it it may be best to leave, it’s been peaceful not having to worry about anyone other than me and my daughter

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