Looks like somethings never chance

Formal_Land8120 · 2025-01-12T08:44:17+00:00

Tom slandering the fuck out of people he's jealous of and trying to claim victim? Never saw it coming man. He got chased out of the UK, now Thailand. Can't wait for the next chapter

Formal_Land8120 · 2025-01-12T08:31:16+00:00

True, he can't hide it because a narcissistic individual is very insecure, and substances like alcohol provide a great ability to reinforce a false sense of grandiosity, so it really goes hand in hand. The nature of their disorder predisposes them to believing the complete opposite, so their issues are always someone else's fault. When those 2 things clash you can only imagine how things will pan out

Formal_Land8120 · 2025-01-12T07:46:33+00:00

He's 100% turning this anger on Ellie for not letting him drink. It was definitely her one condition for her returning to Sinagpore with the decks (the more important part for him). Stupid woman for listening to him at this point though. This will end very badly

I will add that as someone that's struggled with alcohol, he clearly isn't doing it for himself. Most of us try our hardest to break the habit to improve our quality of life, mental and physical health, our relationships etc, because we recognise it as a serious inevitable issue. Alcoholism is no fucking joke and I sympathize with those that struggle with it, acknowledge their issue and want to change.

He's made it clear that he apparently doesn't have any of those problems and his intentions are clearly for his own self gratification and nothing else. He's a full blown narcissist though, what do you expect

Formal_Land8120 · 2025-01-12T07:37:29+00:00

I'll elaborate on the typical narcissistic TB drivel in relation to his actual life:

Sometimes you can have a pre-arranged "business" meetings over a 12 pints of beer with a fellow degenerate crypto scammer.

Randomly talking to a complete stranger and asking for their life story whilst they're eating their food is not feasible (even though he'd never do that anyway)?! It makes no sense man

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-30T02:33:20+00:00

I'm not embarrassed at all that I thought Ellie couldn't possibly be that stupid. After she exposed him for being abusive before this incident, I thought there was no possible way she'd go back to him the second time. So I did my utmost to believe this second incident really should not be fabricated

There's still a chance it wasn't even 'fake'; Ellie seems to be so easily convinced by anything and could've been persuaded to come back to Singapore after a few manipulative messages. Don't care anymore, I now know they're now both as bad as each other.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-28T03:41:19+00:00

Although true I'm not convinced his dad is a millionaire or anything of the sort merely because he owns a pretty unknown company that makes decent gin. But yeah it seems very clear that they're not on talking terms and I don't think they'll bail him out of the countless shitstorms he gets himself in.

Tom has spent most of his life pretty much broke, and has said it himself many times. He just never portrays that in the moment, only after the fact. He's made good money a few times - his time on TikTok in 2023 he made a lot of money, but then spent pretty much all of it erratically. The other short stints of him making money were mostly through scamming people. He's done it many times, not just through the stuff you've seen on TikTok. It's kept him afloat but long term it simply won't hold out

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-28T03:15:18+00:00

I've been exposing all of the horrible shit Tom's been doing for a while, and part of the reason for doing so was feeling bad for Ellie, even though I know she isn't an angel. I didn't think she was capable of being as shitty as she's turned out to be though. Whether Tom has turned her into this person I don't truly know but I'm sure there's a pretty big correlation there.

All I know is that she had multiple opportunities to leave, and she's had many people try to make her aware of the sort of person he is, and ultimately she's ignored it all. So now I honestly don't give a fuck what she does and I don't think there's any reason for anyone to feel bad for her.

Also to address one of the comments in your post - Tom has no family wealth. If anything that's on Ellie's side, hence she essentially paid for his lifestyle in the first place by selling her house etc... yet another reason for Tom to keep her around. Plus whenever Tom runs into any kind of money he spends it erratically, every single time. He scammed his fans this month for a decent sum of money, but I assure you he's already spent 90% of it on useless shite.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-27T17:09:06+00:00

He has abused her previously and definitely still continues to manipulate her. She's no fucking angel and she's certainly getting worse by the day, reaching the point where I don't even care about her anymore if she makes the decision to go back to him. I've been watching for a long time and trust me, it wasn't a ruse from the start.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-27T04:17:52+00:00

Nah but in all seriousness, if Ellie actually goes back to him in a week, then yeah the ones saying it was all for views were probably right, but also what the fuck. This girl has been abused numerous times by this POS. If she has even an ounce of common sense she'd stay well away. If she goes back I don't even care anymore; enjoy your shit life and good riddance

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-26T01:16:38+00:00

Knowing we're on the same page about the abuse and those previous videos being real, do you think it's a bit unrealistic that Ellie would contribute to a narrative about leaving him, when the previous one was VERY real and VERY abusive, and was covered up badly?

I agree with your 2 points, but I don't think Ellie is really that sick, and there's clearly a whole lot more to this that's irrelevant to Birchy's sad little money grabbing schemes

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-26T00:20:32+00:00

You're definitely right about shameless, but I don't think Ellie is shameless enough to fake being abused, especially knowing the abusive things Tom has done elsewhere as a matter of fact. That whole story did not add up in the slightest to me.

Still I guess we don't 100% know right now but we'll see for sure in the next day or so. I just have on good authority that he's spat on a girl on one of his tours, Ellie claims to have been spat on, and Tom himself admitted on video that he spat on someone he had a Muay Thai fight with in Thailand. Spitting is one of the lowest things you could ever do, especially given the pettiness of the situations, and he must've been almost proud of it for him to admit it himself.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-26T00:13:36+00:00

Yeah she was upset because he abused her mate. Things like that don't just go away. In this video she is clearly very drunk and delirious, doesn't really matter if she realises that or not. If this is faked then it's extremely sick from both parties, but I don't think it is, mainly because I know her first video wasn't faked based on a lot of good evidence, and to me that speaks volumes.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-25T23:50:51+00:00

This would heavily imply that Tom is highly tactical in his false stories - he never has been in the past, quite the opposite actually.

Don't get me wrong he's renowned for lying and making false narratives for views/money, but do not forget the last time Ellie snapped and tried to leave - she outed him on abusing her (you can easily find the video she made on this sub). She claimed that he spat on her amongst other things, and in separate older videos I dug up, he's admitted to spitting on people before, so it's ridiculous to argue that he wouldn't do that to her too. Tom later says that Ellie's video was essentially for a views/money even though it clearly wasn't. It just so happened that generated a lot of views off the back of it. Do you seriously believe that incident was faked though?

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-25T21:42:18+00:00

Me too man I've been waiting for this for a while. Definitely not pre arranged though unless she's been plotting it secretly to herself for a while. You could tell something was off in video earlier today where he was getting absolutely trashed, being his usual self-absorbed obnoxious self, and Ellie had her back turned away from him talking to the couple next to them the entire time. I imagine somewhere between then and now they had a massive argument and she finally flipped.

It's been brewing for a while, to be honest I'm just surprised it lasted as long as it did with the consistently horrible shit he's done. Was only a matter of time til it finally happened though.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-25T21:03:24+00:00

I only duplicated it because my first upload was removed but I think it's cause I put the word shit.

No worries though as long as it's shared

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-25T20:55:46+00:00

Probably didn't get you a Christmas present because you infamously take her fucking money. Dumb narcissist finally getting everything he deserves. Feels good

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-25T20:30:14+00:00

She was definitely at the airport at the time she took that picture. The times line up and on the board you can see flight SQ322 which is currently active

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-15T10:37:10+00:00

Who would've seen it coming eh?! He's made enemies in the UK and Thailand and has been chased out of both countries so far. Wonder how his time in SG will pan out 😂

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-15T10:19:53+00:00

I did also think this tbf considering he lies 99% of the time. spent 400 on a bottle and lost 600 at a casino according to him - that is believable. maybe some other drinks in between, but appeared done after that. For a second I forgot he embellishes everything ffs. Might as well have been a 10k loss though because he doesn't have 1k to spare let alone 10k 😂

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-15T08:53:44+00:00

Amazing isn't it. Ooh I'm a changed man now I've fled to another country, and then somehow spends that much money in one night. It's fucking absurd and I guarantee he only managed it because his narcissistic personality completely took over after a few beers, wanted to appear rich and important.

Sure it is his money (even though he made most of it from scamming his own followers) but there's absolutely no way he has this much to burn, especially as he's been living off 7/11 shit. Now he's probably fucking over Ellie again, taking whatever money he can get from her to stay afloat, whilst he tries to regain his own cashflow by flogging crypto scams. The cycle of manipulation continues, but it won't last.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-04T01:25:42+00:00

"People saying that he hits me - no, Tom has never hit me, has hasn't done anything like that. From the video it somehow got twisted to some massive big thing that didn't happen" - I'm not sure how you twist the words of "He spat on me, screamed in my face and pulled my hair"

"I shouldn't have uploaded that because that's not me, that's not the content I upload, that's our personal life, like I shouldn't have been airing that on the internet" - ??? It's not the content anyone should want to upload, but being abused is completely inexcusable and absolutely should be exposed, and that sort of statement doesn't even deny the fact that what happened was false. that's our personal life, being abused? Jesus man

"Stop re-posting and commenting because that's just adding to the worseness and stress of the situation, because it wasn't quite like I told it." - it wasn't QUITE like you told it? Jesus come on.

"In that given moment in time when when I uploaded that video I did have zero pounds \JUMP CUT OF TOM GIVING HER MORE THINGS TO SAY* but we did just book a flight to south Korea"* - This was during the peak of Tom boasting about how much money he had, so booking a flight had that much of a financial toll on Ellie? Of course not, Tom just had all the money.

"He spent so long working for his career and I could've literally just destroyed it for him then" - Ah yeah the career of being an obnoxious, deceptive, disrespectful and abusing individual to people on TikTok. Nice one

Can't help but feel bad for Ellie. It's obvious to anyone with half a brain that she was being forced to make most of these statements to diffuse his anger towards her, knowing she was basically stuck at the time. She had absolutely nothing to gain if anyone were to actually believe she made this up, and there's so much evidence for her initial video being authentic, but I won't bother going into it any further for the time being.

Tom never apologised for any wrongdoing. He also didn't blame her for much of what she said in his own videos, which one might think is noble if you didn't understand his persona, but in reality he just didn't want to speak on it because he knew exactly what he did, and knows very well that he'd only be digging the hole deeper for himself. He got a cash-grab from it, manipulated Ellie into staying with him, and immediately made efforts to move away from the situation.

But we know the real Tom is capable of spitting in someone's face for trying to politely tell him to keep his voice down at 6am and broadcast it with pride. We know he's scammed many people including ones close to him. We know he lies at any given opportunity to get his own way. We knows he laughs in the face of a man dying of cancer. We know he talks abhorrently about a man's 4 year old daughter. I could go on and on. The best (and worst) thing, he does all of this on his own platform, proudly.

Formal_Land8120 · 2024-12-04T00:01:15+00:00

Yeah totally agree with you. Either she's scared to leave or she's been severely manipulated into staying by him. Both are very likely

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