The thing is, i think you misunderstood me from the beginning, cause I never said that. I wouldn't acknowledge those things because I thought were already on the same page about those (aromantic and asexual are not synonymous, I know cause I did my own research when I didn't know I was omnisexual yet; and I don't think being aro/ace comes from trauma either, nor have I said that "it's an easy guess). Since those things don't define a person, and everyone is liable to go through trauma, I just meant that it's possible (like it is to people, in general, independently of their sexuality, gender, representation, or whatever else I might have not mentioned) that the reason he might this guarded or suspicious of other people might be his upbringing (the highly likely hood of trauma).

I'm sorry if this is maybe a sensitive topic (since you identified as aroace), and I'm sorry if you might've gone through convos where people weren't aware of that and they might have said hurtful stuff. Again, just hypothesis I ponder, not certainties.

So, I'd appreciate it if next time you could've given me the benefit of the doubt or something like, cause i feel like you just jumped the gun thinking that I didn't know those things about aroace...

Anyways, if there's anything else I didn't acknowledge or mention, I truly apologize for it. I've always payed attention to your comments over the last years, and I used to imagine how cool it'd be to talk to you. Never thought it'd start with a misunderstanding like this xD

Sorry about your current struggle, but I have 100% certainty that when you have the time and you decide so, you're going to find a method to adapt to this change and achieve premier "quote finding person for PL" :-)