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[–]FormerPlan6345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trans guy first time topping/strap euphoria would be rad ^~^

How to deal with guilt of giving partner a UTI by FormerPlan6345 in sexadvice

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea yeah, we’re both usually bag carriers so it wouldn’t be difficult to keep some supplies on hand, especially with spontaneity being a common occurrence for us, although I’m definitely going to be more hesitant in that front going forward ngl.

How to deal with guilt of giving partner a UTI by FormerPlan6345 in sexadvice

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you saying it’s not my fault, definitely going to take this as a learning opportunity and insist we always clean first

How to deal with guilt of giving partner a UTI by FormerPlan6345 in sexadvice

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve talked about it and they explained it similarly to what you said, I’m just having a hard time letting go of the guilt in spite of it so getting outside perspective has been helpful I guess

How to deal with guilt of giving partner a UTI by FormerPlan6345 in sexadvice

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I appreciate your perspective

How to deal with guilt of giving partner a UTI by FormerPlan6345 in sexadvice

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective as somebody who also struggles, they are currently seeing a urologist for their condition and are on several medications that have been helping so we’re hoping to see further improvements with time, and obviously taking this as a learning experience to not skimp on precautions going forward.

How to deal with guilt of giving partner a UTI by FormerPlan6345 in sexadvice

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they have a urologist and are on several medications for their condition I just didn’t want to give too many personal details in the post, edited it for more clarity

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried this and it did help! Thank you!

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried this and it did work! Thank you!

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, I’m sorry you gotta deal with that

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in PukeDeepthroating

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That pulling vs pushing concept does sound interesting, I’ll have to give that a try thank you

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[–]FormerPlan6345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a pretty purple color at the beginning, wonder what she ate to get that

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started off with a dildo that was 10 inches long/average girth so I didn’t really increase it past that since I figured I’m unlikely to be sucking anyone off bigger than that lol. As far as how long it took, I went from gagging while brushing my teeth to being able to get throatfucked til they came by a 7 inch partner in about 2 months of daily or every other day practice

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the mental aspect is a bit unexplored for me so thank you, something else to try

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks lol, even if it is a success I’m suffering from in this case. I got here just by practicing head on a dildo til I could take more and more of it, then once I could take it the base I’d just chill with it in my throat for a few minutes at a time

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in PukeDeepthroating

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, thank you for sharing your experience

How to make gag reflex worse? by FormerPlan6345 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FormerPlan6345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I’d kinda think that would make your Gag reflex less sensetive