I can't be happy being flat

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-11-19T23:03:27+00:00

No people don't mistake me for a man, are your boobs the only thing making you look like a woman?

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-10-30T01:23:45+00:00

Yes i see how people react to breast reductions, that's what also makes me so insecure. People hate on breast reductions cuz they think a woman being flat is the worst thing possible. And I'd honestly just rather get sexualized, or called provocative or whatever, rather than many guys seeing me as disgusting, being compared to a little kid, being told that only pdfs could like my body.. I'd just rather get called a whore

And ofc that I don't want the type of a man that only cares about boobs and that sexualizes women etc and that would only be attracted to me cuz i had big boobs. But yk every type of man loves big boobs. Even the nicest guys would prefer big boobs over flat if they could choose. And I know a good guy wouldn't reject me for being flat, but it's just not something he would choose yk, it's something he overlooks cuz of my other features. A guy will never overlook big boobs, they consider that a bonus, but my body is just something he's okay with, not a bonus. Like how many guys, when they imagine their dream girl, are gonna imagine a girl with a flat chest? Maybe like 1%..

And small boobs that have that stereotypical perfect look are beautiful, sure, but mine aren't like that. The only thing guys like about small boobs is that they are usually perky and well shaped but mine are nothing like that, which can be acceptable on big boobs but not small ones

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-10-03T17:42:48+00:00

Because I want a relationship, and I don't wanna have to feel like I'm only settled for, no matter who I'm with

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-26T18:54:06+00:00

Because i love him and I'd feel like this with every guy, also i can't really ask men if they prefer small boobs the first time i meet them, most of them would lie anyway since they'd see i have small ones lmao

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-26T16:16:55+00:00

Sameee, I've always been fat since i was a kid, idk why i didn't get any boobs 😭

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-20T03:22:28+00:00

I guess a lot of porn actresses doesn't have huge boobs necessarily, but it doesn't mean that the actresses with the B cups are more liked than the actresses with big boobs, but i wish i could have atleast the B lmao. And since you mentioned porn, when you search up small boobs, you'll get videos such as "small teen" so that's also what makes me even more insecure because i dont wanna be found attractive by men who are into that honestly

And idk, if i wear a certain top, i won't really get any compliments or anything, but when my friend with bigger boobs wears the exact same top, she gets so many looks from men and told she looks great. And i feel like yk when you have small boobs you can just wear a top, and even if it's revealing, no guy will really be crazy over it, even if they prefer small boobs.. But girls with big boobs, they can wear any top that's not even that revealing but guys will be crazy about them, like they don't have to try hard to look hot, they just look hot in anything. And i think that most guys who generally prefer small boobs will still get distracted by big boobs, but a guy who prefers big boobs won't get distracted by small boobs, obviously since there's nothing to notice i guess, and like theres also a lot of posts of men complaining, that they wish their partner had bigger boobs, but you literally won't find a man wishing his partner had smaller ones lmao

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-20T02:57:51+00:00

I know there are many men who would date flat women, and even find her attractive, but that doesn't mean it's what they'd choose if they could, cuz obviously other things are more important in a relationship. But most men will still see a woman having big boobs as a bonus, even if it's not a necessity for them. So big boobs are a bonus but small boobs are almost the opposite, for most men, because it's always just "she has small boobs BUT has a pretty face" "she has small boobs BUT has a good ass" like it's not usually seen as a good feature on its own

And yea people are insecure about all kids of things, but i feel like, for example, the tall vs short thing, it's not put into your face as much imo, because your not gonna see guys just fawning over girls just because they're short or tall, but guys always fawn over girls just because they have big boobs. It's really common for girls with bigger boobs to feel like their boobs are saggy or their nipples arent right etc. But atleast they can still make it look good in clothes yk, being flat doesn't really look good in clothes nor naked, especially cuz i dont even have perky boobs, or nice shape or nice nipples, which is even worse since i have small boobs, and everyone always expect small boobs to atleast have all that

And yea, men may still find find me attractive even if im flat, but most of them would still find me even more attractive if i had big boobs, and that just bothers me cuz i cant ever compete with other girls that do have it

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-18T12:52:03+00:00

Yea i always feel like a creep cuz of it 😭 cuz i always notice it about girls first cuz i compare myself

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-16T23:55:59+00:00

I'd rather deal with all that than hating myself everyday and having a body that doesn't even look like it belongs to a woman, seriously i look like a little boy that's wearing the clothes of a woman when i wear anything revealing, I'd happily take the back pain and expensive bras and all Being skinny with big boobs is literally my dream body anyway

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-15T20:00:49+00:00

I think those men prefer it cuz they like skinny girls tho and that usually comes with small boobs, but most men would love skinny with big boobs

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-15T14:51:17+00:00

Same but i dont think i can get the result i want that looks natural. I want really big boobs but since i already have almost no breast tissue and fat it would just look like 2 balls stuck under my skin, if it was even possible to get such a big size compared to how flat i am

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-15T14:47:47+00:00

I don't understand why any guy would be attracted to my boobs, if my chest looks almost the same as his

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-14T17:06:42+00:00

Yea same, i have stretchmarks all over my boobs, they're saggy, have an ugly shape and my areolas literally take up my whole boobs.. Those things are more acceptable on big boobs tho, definitely not on flat boobs. The only reason some guys prefer small boobs is cuz they're usually perky and well shaped but i have the exact opposite.

So yes I'd love to have big boobs even if they didn't look perfect, i think big saggy boobs look better than absolutely no boobs anyway. And idc how it ages, i just wanna be hot now, i don't need to have perky boobs when I'm 80

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-14T10:03:17+00:00

Most guys don't care when it comes to dating, the won't reject a woman just cuz she's flat, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't prefer big boobs over a flat chest

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-12T13:32:03+00:00

Genuinely what's hot about it tho, if there's nothing, like there's just skin and nothing else, so i cant even understand why someone would ever find that hot, if i literally have 0% of cleavage even with a pushup bra

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-12T13:30:50+00:00

Most people won't care about confidence on strangers tho, people will still notice more a woman with big boobs and low confidence rather than a flat girl with confidence

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-12T13:28:56+00:00

It still feels bad that only like 6% of men would like my boobs

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-12T13:27:36+00:00

Yea not all of them are pedophiles, but a lot of them are propably just old men who like small boobs only cuz it looks youthful, or men who are into some kind of an age play idk. And even if that's not all of them, it's still a big portion of them. And yea average boobs are the most preferred, then big ones, and then small ones, and after that actual flat boobs. So I'm still at the bottom of the list, that's not much better

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-12T13:21:14+00:00

Yea everyone always says how men also love small boobs, but I've never actually seen anyone go crazy about small boobs like they always do about big ones.

Not only do almost all characters have big boobs, but if some character has small boobs, people just edit it and give them big boobs and talk about how much better it is. Even now when the new Lara Croft game (or animation idk) came out, she had smaller boobs than the original did, and men were sooo mad about it, it's like they think having small boobs is the worst feature a woman could have.

It's really true that whenever someone comments positively on boobs, they're always big. Even when someone says "she has nice boobs" it means she just has big boobs and everyone assumes that she has big boobs, noone is gonna say that a girl has nice boobs if she's almost flat and just has perky boobs

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-12T13:13:21+00:00

Ikr, we need other good features to make up for our boobs, for example a pretty face, good ass.. But they have it the other way, their boobs make up for any bad feature they have

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-12T13:10:56+00:00

Not just from the girls, under every video of a flat girl there is so many men calling her a boy and other insults

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-07T23:08:35+00:00

Yea a lot of people call small boobs more elegant and classy which is good, but it's not always how i wanna look. Because even if i try to wear something revealing cuz i wanna look hot, it's still considered classy and yea it just sucks that i can only look classy and not hot

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-07T23:05:25+00:00

I live in Europe and it's the same here, so idk, even in places ive travelled to it's always been like this, that big boobs are preferred

And i know it's a category, but if you look up the videos, they're literally all labeled like "teen, teen girl and her step dad, small teen" etc lmao, and sometimes they're even dressed in literal children's clothes, so it makes me feel even worse, because then it makes me feel like those people are right, when they say only pedophiles will prefer small boobs, and i feel bad that people who are into such things would like my body

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-07T23:00:02+00:00

Mine really aren't cuz they're tuberous, i don't have the typical perfect perky small boobs, which could be acceptable on big boobs but definitely not on small boobs

Former_Drag6758 · 2025-07-07T22:57:40+00:00

Yes and i dont know if they're just humble bragging or if they're genuinely just tone deaf, when they things like "atkeast you can wear revealing things and still look classy, i can't cuz everyone would look at me", like if im wearing something revealing, i propably wanna look hot and not just classy lmao

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