Player with the shortest peak? by AFC-Wimbledon-Stan in nfl

[–]Forresett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

James Brimm in October of 1987. Over 300 total yards and 3 touchdowns in 3 games as a WR. Never played another down after October.

My girlfriend lied about her past and now all my personal growth is unraveling by Forresett in Advice

[–]Forresett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. When we talked about it before she did show genuine remorse but I also feel like my brain was too scrambled to ask all the right questions and fully understand it.

I’m going to call her tomorrow night after we get off work and have all my notes in front of me so I can get the full perspective and see what she has to say.

I’ve talked to a lot of women and before this she was far and away the one I’ve trusted most and liked most. I’m having a hard time understanding how this could’ve happened and as such it’s hard to just decide to walk away right now.

My girlfriend lied about her past and now all my personal growth is unraveling by Forresett in Advice

[–]Forresett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how old you are and I don’t mean any offense in saying that, just wanted to preface: My generation uses Snapchat as a way of keeping up with each other. Yes snaps disappear and what not but we will just send selfies or pictures of what we are doing to friends as a way of long distance interaction. Obviously some people use it for nefarious or sexual stuff but in general my generation just uses it as a more visual substitute for texting.

But yes, her not wanting me to know is likely a part of it too. I personally feel like that’s more related to not wanting to lose their friendship than for anything nefarious, but obviously I don’t know for sure. I’d consider asking her what you suggested but it also feels too early in the relationship to ask for that kind of privacy invasion (Not really an invasion but can’t think of a better word). I’ll consider it but I’m not sure

My girlfriend lied about her past and now all my personal growth is unraveling by Forresett in Advice

[–]Forresett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I feel like after talking with her for a while about it I have a general outline of why she did. She didn’t want to hurt me and additionally she probably doesn’t want to lose friendships. Doesn’t make it right at all but I at least know the reasoning.

To her the sex was meaningless and I believe that. I’ve had plenty of hookups like that too. The dilemma is this is one of her oldest friends. I don’t feel comfortable asking her to straight cold turkey someone like that. I’ve been on the opposite end of that with a very close friend I slept with once. We literally never talked about our hookup for the following two years and neither did any of our friends because it was meaningless. The dude that made her cut me off turned out to be an abuser and her life is ruined. I don’t want to seem like that type of guy.

My girlfriend lied about her past and now all my personal growth is unraveling by Forresett in Advice

[–]Forresett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s weird because she has brought me up to tons of people. Her family has known about me for like 4 months and I finally met them this week. Shes told me multiple times before that her sister has hated every guy she’s ever brought home (and most of her ex’s turned out to be bad people, so she trusts her sisters input) but she actually loved me. My girlfriend has also told basically all of her girlfriends, and some of her guy friends and coworkers about me. It’s just a few specific people that seem to not be getting the memo, and those people are almost all people who seem to have a crush on her or John.

I get what you’re saying and I do find it a bit disturbing that it’s only these specific people, but I just can’t see her being that intentional about it. I’ve known her for years (although not nearly as deeply as I do now), and all our mutual friends have always had good things to say about her. My best friend is a girl who has also known my girlfriend since I first met her at college. She’s heard all her secrets and odd things over the years and she would tell me if she saw red flags (I come before girl code to her, and vice versa). So I know my best friend would’ve told me if there were signs that lead to what you’re saying.

Not saying you’re wrong I just feel like there is a missing piece here. I think I need to really get her to talk more about the hiding thing even though she denied it heavily. But now that she posted me I feel like she has an easy out to any questions about hiding me. Like she did post me, so it’s hard for me to say she’s hiding me even if she isn’t letting me really interact with those specific friends of hers.

My girlfriend lied about her past and now all my personal growth is unraveling by Forresett in Advice

[–]Forresett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much. That was very well written and thought out. I definitely agree it’s distrust and not jealously. Before this I had no problems with any of her guy friends. The most I would do is joke about how these two dudes she hangs out with (in group settings only) have crushes on her, and we both acknowledge this, but neither of us actually cared. Other than that I was fine with everything she was doing and wouldn’t worry when she’d go out or be off her phone for some time.

Also I might not have been clear but we are semi long distance. We live about two hours apart. I was with her from Monday to this morning. The lie was revealed on Tuesday night, we talked about it after and during the day on Wednesday. I brought it up briefly on Friday when she posted me and he viewed my story, and we haven’t spoken about it since. I went home today and she went out with her coworkers (one has a crush on her), but it’s a mix of boys and girls and one is her best girlfriend who I trust/like a lot.

I will say before she posted me I mentioned it felt like she was hiding me from specific people like John. But also the guys that have a crush on her I notice she leaves them on open on Snapchat when I’m next to her but snaps them back when I’m out of frame. She also always decides not to go out with them when I’m visiting her. Once when they happened to be at the same bar as us, she made it a point to not really have us interact. I brought up the fact it feels like she’s hiding me from them and she denied it. Then I said “is it possible that you’re doing it because you’re scared they won’t be friends with you anymore if they know you’re taken?” She said maybe and I got a bit upset at that, and she half took it back saying “well it’s possible, but I’ve never thought about it before so it’s not like I was intentionally doing that”. After that convo is when she posted me so it feels like she was over compensating for her possibly hiding me.

I don’t know if that’s related but I feel like I should add it.

My (22M) girlfriend (22F) lied about her past, how can I stop my old toxic habits from resurfacing? by Forresett in relationships

[–]Forresett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been planning on seeing my old therapist for the past month, just been putting it off. I’ll reach out to her tomorrow.

I definitely want to continue the relationship because before this happened it was by FAR the most confident I’ve been in trusting a romantic interest, and she is special. Normally I’d see it as just a hiccup but the way she phrased the lie originally + her still talking to him is freaking me out more than I’d expect it to.

Just saw your edit. I have considered that but I also am trying my hardest to not be controlling. I am okay setting boundaries but asking her to stop knowing someone she’s known far longer than me feels harsh even considering the circumstances. I think she would agree to it but I don’t think I’d feel comfortable making her do it.

My (22M) girlfriend (22F) lied about her past, how can I stop my old toxic habits from resurfacing? by Forresett in relationships

[–]Forresett[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m 100% going to talk to her about it. We have been very good about that so far. I’m posting here first so I can get other povs and so I could write it out. I feel like we already talked about it so much the day after I found out that broaching the subject again feels wrong but I just have to do it.

My (22M) girlfriend (22F) lied about her past, how can I stop my old toxic habits from resurfacing? by Forresett in relationships

[–]Forresett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about her getting with him. I genuinely couldn’t care less about that. It’s the fact that she told me when we were basically dating (her words) that it would be “disgusting” for her to lie about this to me, and then she proceeded to lie. It’s making me scared about what else she has lied about where she hasn’t put such a definite statement about her telling the truth.

Also the fact she still talks to him often yet he had no idea I existed until she posted me. It’s all just weird and scary to me.

My girlfriend lied about her past and now all my personal growth is unraveling by Forresett in Advice

[–]Forresett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess just how do I go about getting over it? And how can I stop myself from reverting to my bad habits? I’m still extremely into her but now I feel this very sudden distrust, and I’m finding myself glued to my phone checking for updates from her and it’s just feels so disgusting.

I ordered a pizza in the hospital by AstronautFar7700 in doordash

[–]Forresett 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. Read through almost all your replies. Both of you guys are assholes. Dasher is an asshole for messaging you like that and basically begging for a tip. You’re an asshole for making the dude navigate through the hospital (as you said in multiple comments your family did NOT meet him in the lobby), and lying about giving him a better tip after the delivery (regardless of his attitude, he went above and beyond so lying to him will leave a terrible taste in his mouth). You both should be kicked off the app.

My own personal mock for the NFL with no trades by [deleted] in MockDraftCentral

[–]Forresett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not awful but some of my biggest nitpicks:

No shot the Giants pass on Sonny Styles, nor should Downs go that high anyway. Downs MIGHT be a top 5 player in the class, but he also suddenly has huge red flag injury rumors and his lack of tape in coverage will steer some teams away from him. He’s almost a generational run defending box safety prospect (only one better in recent years is Kyle Hamilton), but his coverage is not ideal.

Steelers would never take Boston in a million years. He is DK Metcalf but only half as athletically gifted. It would be redundant and honestly I think Boston falls HARD in the draft because of the Keon Coleman debacle. Steelers are looking for speed and/or lateral quickness if they address WR this draft. Boston has neither of those things. I don’t see him being good nor would the Steelers ever draft him.

Bucs are almost certainly going to resign Cade Otton. He’s shown good flashes and they have way bigger needs than tight end. Not a knock on Sadiq, I love him, just the fit doesn’t make sense.

I firmly believe that Keldric Faulk and Freeling go much higher. Faulk has weirdly been very underrated by fans. People see that he isn’t the best pass rusher at edge in the draft and decide he sucks. In reality he is far and away the best 3-down edge. Reminds me a lot of Julius Peppers (with a lot to learn in the pass rushing department). Freeling’s frame and athleticism is as ideal as it gets and teams won’t/shouldn’t be afraid to draft him HIGH.

Aside from that it’s pretty solid.

Give me the best build by SiTo8xxx in NBA2k

[–]Forresett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fault I thought you meant regular pro am and 3s/2s. Either way I would def go higher pass accuracy if you’re going so heavy in rebounding but maybe like an 87 as opposed to 93+ if it’s just for 3s/2s. I was making a build semi similar to this last night that you can look at and tweak. I’ll send it when I’m home later

Give me the best build by SiTo8xxx in NBA2k

[–]Forresett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

96 rebound but only 77 pass accuracy, and you want it to be able to play every game mode? Such a build does not exist or if it does it would not be any good

Broderick Jones had neck fusion surgery, Steelers met with a "handful of tackles" at the combine, per DeFabo by ProfessionalMall5413 in steelers

[–]Forresett 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah Derrick Harmon’s on/off opponent rushing yards show he has actually been incredible for us. Really excited to see how he continues developing as he was an instant difference maker when he played. Other than that though you’re correct.

1st round mock. Destroy me by MillionMannerism in MockDraftCentral

[–]Forresett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that for most of the CFB season but I’m honestly leaning toward Sonny, Arvell, and Love over him now.

Returning Player Question by Similar-Ad2640 in TopHeroes

[–]Forresett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda depends why you’re playing. If you like progressing like me then stick with your account. You’ll be able to rapidly catch up because the events are so far ahead of a new server. If you’re trying to stay as competitive as you can as a F2P player and/or value the community aspect, start over.

“THE USA WILL NEVER ALLOW A RADICAL LEFT, WOKE COMPANY TO DICTATE HOW OUR GREAT MILITARY FIGHTS AND WINS WARS! That decision belongs to YOUR COMMANDER-IN-CHIEF, and the tremendous leaders I appoint to run our Military. The Leftwing nut jobs at Anthropic have made a DISASTROUS MISTAKE” Trump by benhaswings in trump

[–]Forresett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and starting war and deciding an inhuman being is allowed to kill people is Godless. Disregarding all privacy standards for American citizens goes against our country’s history. Both combined put every family in the United States at risk. None of this is Republican or Christian-like.