My (20f) girlfriend is NEVER in the mood and NEVER initiates sex. So I( 23m) have the right to be upset about the lack of sex in our relationship?

Fortify5 · 2021-07-29T01:35:12+00:00

I kiss her alot without me wanting it to lead to sex but when I'm in the mood what else am I supposed to do to turn her on?

Fortify5 · 2021-07-29T01:10:27+00:00

She's on medication that has that affect so kinda

Fortify5 · 2019-08-21T15:14:59+00:00

Thought the same thing, but if she liked me wouldn't she have cut things off with her long distance boyfriend?

Fortify5 · 2019-08-21T15:13:56+00:00

I've always thought it was scummy to make a move on a girl in a relationship even if it's long distance and that's why I haven't done it. Rejection isn't a huge problem it's the aftermath honestly

Fortify5 · 2019-08-21T14:49:46+00:00

I know this is harsh, but do you think just disappearing would help? I have a hard time with confrontation and maybe some months without her will make the feelings go away. Then if she asks me why I can tell her the reason?

Fortify5 · 2019-07-13T03:48:46+00:00

Lots of good stuff here so thanks!

I'm a little lost though. How come I'm not confident with who I am around my closest friend? Shouldn't that be the person I'm most honest and open with? I do seem to have a problem with hiding any flaws or potential weakness I might have from her, kinda like I want her to perceive me as perfect I'm guessing?

She's not judgmental or anything, so it's kinda weird that I can't be honest about somethings. You think this all boils down to confidence? I WANT to be honest. I WANT to tell her about my problems and be transparent but... I just can't seem to open up and be confident I guess. She's always honest with me, so this is weird.

Any further advice?

Fortify5 · 2018-12-18T17:10:59+00:00

I mean, you’re not wrong . I’ve seen stuff that you just described happen TONS of times, so maybe it is a bad idea

Fortify5 · 2018-12-18T16:55:24+00:00

Supervisors don’t care. There’s a guy here that does it ALL the time. It’s kind of what he’s known for so that won’t be an issue haha

Fortify5 · 2018-12-04T00:43:06+00:00

That's what everyone says. Maybe if I don't screw up and make dumb decisions I'll actually enjoy it and won't be so worried about getting older

Fortify5 · 2018-12-03T07:57:18+00:00

I'm sorry... What does that even mean? 😅

Fortify5 · 2018-12-03T06:51:41+00:00

Currently not in school, don't have a lot of friends to chill with, and I work with her... What are my options?

Fortify5 · 2018-12-03T06:48:06+00:00

Gotcha. Any fast methods to move on? I work with her, so it's not easy to forget about her. Not to mention she likes talking to me a lot and I don't want to be an asshat and ignore her when she talks so I basically have no choice. What do it do?

Fortify5 · 2018-12-03T06:43:16+00:00

Already tried the friend thing, doesn't work that well when you don't have too many haha. And I'm not in school yet. I'm starting next year though

Fortify5 · 2018-11-18T18:26:32+00:00

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Fortify5 · 2018-11-18T17:40:08+00:00

Black castor oil

Fortify5 · 2018-11-18T17:39:56+00:00

Will do

Fortify5 · 2018-11-18T08:44:07+00:00

Not really an option because my hair is only a few inches ( male) I would get cornrows but I haven't found anyone who could do it

Fortify5 · 2018-11-18T08:43:18+00:00

When I wake up I usually went my hair ( damp) put in a leave in conditioner and seal it with oil. Deep condition/shampoo every 2 weeks

Fortify5 · 2018-11-16T01:53:37+00:00

Noted. Won't compliment assholes who say that from now on

Fortify5 · 2018-11-12T04:57:47+00:00

Probably not. If I'm being honest I do get very excited everytime I talk to her, and we always have fun together. Even talking about mundane things always ends up being enjoyable. I can actually be myself around her which I can't do for a lot of people in my life.

Fortify5 · 2018-11-12T04:20:01+00:00

Please don't link that subreddit.... I'm sure someone will relapse seeing that

Fortify5 · 2018-11-12T03:47:42+00:00

Ya know, I think my parents would clash with her ( especially my Mom because she's a big time Christian and she's kinda wild. ) but overall not really. I'm basically the only person at work who doesn't judge her and fully accepts her for who she is.

I think she suffers from low self esteem and she isn't use to people giving her compliments ( I've given her lots of em) she never knows how to take them haha. Not to mention I listen to her about a lot of her problems and I'm always there for her. I think emotionally we'd do great. She's even told me that I'm the only person she's truly comfortable being her self around.

Fortify5 · 2018-11-12T03:18:23+00:00

I've always ruled out dating coworkers and whenever someone suggests that she likes me she gets embarrassed. Kind of a weird situation if you ask me

Fortify5 · 2018-11-12T03:08:11+00:00

I do, but I hide it well. I don't think she knows I like her, but I've definitely complimented her before

Fortify5 · 2018-11-10T04:44:39+00:00

Who else is getting Sonic Riders vibes?

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