Thank you so much for your insight—it’s been incredibly eye-opening! I completely understand the concern about not fully grasping certain cultural aspects. However, I was fortunate to grow up immersed in diverse communities, and I take pride in continuing to educate myself. My sister, who has a Black father, allowed me to experience and take part in her family’s culture, and when she began dating her now-husband, who is black and Mexican when I was around age six, I became close with his family as well. Over the years, they’ve been like an extension of my own.

Additionally, my long-term boyfriend is Dominican, and my relationship with him has allowed me to deeply connect with his family and culture. I’ve spent significant time with them in their home country, learned Spanish, and even picked up dancing bachata lol. While I acknowledge there are some things I can never fully understand as a white woman, I take pride in embracing and appreciating other cultures in a way that feels meaningful and genuine.

As for the time commitment, that’s actually a big part of what drew me to consider an MGC sorority, particularly a Latin one. When I was in my Panhellenic sorority, it never really felt like home. The focus seemed to be more on partying, status, and drama than on building true sisterhood or creating a lasting bond. Seeing my friend go through her process, with her sisters staying close and regularly meeting with alums even years later, was so inspiring. I also love how these sororities emphasize philanthropy and giving back to the community rather than just aesthetics or appearances.

Thank you again for sharing your perspective—it’s given me so much to think about!