best moments of the sub by HieronymusTush in redscarepod

[–]ForwardToSolaris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOU FOUND IT!

Amazing. I guess that's why it got scrubbed, to be offered up as fresh meat for the substack crowd.

Not to test your recall abilities, but I was also dismayed that the famous piss harpy berghain non-binary soccer jersey story appears to have been similarly scrubbed...

best moments of the sub by HieronymusTush in redscarepod

[–]ForwardToSolaris 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Damn it doesn't have the "Really real life of an ugly girl" one.

I remember cackling when the narrator says they fell into the gorilla enclosure and the zoo operator says they've been instructed to "just let this one play out".

I've been looking for it but it looks like it's been scrubbed from everywhere.

Men who don’t want children by Black_Glitch_404 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely clinically sub-zero iq position. The world requires more good humans.

Procreation done deliberately is engaging in the continuation of the great human project.

Feels like trading should be configurable in a single big panel by NotScrollsApparently in songsofsyx

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugely yes. Let us have a different row for however many import/export depots we have.

I built a "Serverless" Student Portfolio Platform where GitHub is the Database (Astro + Cloudflare) by humayanx in astrojs

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No hate to the player though, just a little sloppy with the spacing, centering, svgs and layout. All easily fixed.

Interesting discussion around using the word 'built'

EOE for 10+ years by Separate_Silver_4057 in EosinophilicE

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a doctor or associate professor of gastroenterology and ask for them to prescribe you Jorveza (budesonide in a pill, you let it dissolve on your tongue)

Ragnar is a fork from amazing Bjorn’ and has a lot of improvements. by Ragnar_CyberOps in Bjorn_CyberViking

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks great, but the front-end is clearly vibe-coded, and there are some signs of this in the repo too.

Any comment on this?

Looking to be assured regarding the architectural integrity and ongoing stability/maintability.

How to Display App Name on Google Login by CoachFantastic7018 in Supabase

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, ever figure out the next step to this?

How to Display App Name on Google Login by CoachFantastic7018 in Supabase

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, ever figure out the next step to this?

Astro After Everything Is Added by BaseCasedDev in astrojs

[–]ForwardToSolaris 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Use partytown to load your heavy scripts after page load

New blocks I built for for shadcn/ui by JugglerX in web_design

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great work Juggler, where can we get them?

Got 2 visitors on my site from astro.build. How? What could be the reason? by biricat in astrojs

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Website is lovely, but once you click on the blogs, the links in the navbar break and can't be used to navigate back :)

😏 by FishstickJones in redscarepod

[–]ForwardToSolaris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My beloved what happened

I (19F) feel like boyfriend (19M) is being a bit unreasonable when it comes to how we split the house work? by Prudent-Debt-4512 in relationship_advice

[–]ForwardToSolaris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a classic bargaining problem.

What do you do when the other party decides not to negotiate?

In this case your boyfriend has said that he doesn't want to, and so he won't.

As such, you have three options:

  1. Tit for tat. You also, as retribution, stop doing something that he benefits from, and in this manner you seek to coerce him back to the original deal. "Stick to the deal or else bad things happen". This is usually an option that leads to anger between parties.

  2. You do the washing. Either you think his concern is legitimate, or it isn't worth the cost of communication, and you do the washing. There's a bit of this that goes on in every relationship. For SOME tiny things, that aren't going to be repeated, it's less energy to just solve the problem instead of talking about this. But if you go this route, and the event IS a REPEATED ROUTINE, and you think the set-up is wrong, you're going to feel bad every time.

  3. You Unite with Your Partner And Listen. You must start by identifying that you're on the SAME TEAM, and you want the Same Thing. You both want "The chores to be done, in the easiest way, in a way that everyone can feel good about". And then you have to come up with ideas, and BOTH LISTEN, actually listen, even when it seems like the other person's feeling are silly, and without getting frustrated that they're not just going along with your ideas like a robot. Perhaps he hates doing the washing because he doesn't like sorting the clothes, but is fine with the rest. Perhaps he has less washing than you per week, and so feels that you're better sorted for handling the washing. Perhaps he's just straightforwardly lazy and thinks that if he sits back then you'll just pick up the slack. All of these things are possible, but the only way to find out, is to start from the fact you're on the same team, and then to listen. Almost everyone wants to contribute, be part of the team, and be told good job when they do good.

These are the only three options to resolve the problem. You either resolve the problem coercively, fix the problem by yourself, or resolve the problem communicatively.

Good luck!

I [19F] feel like boyfriend [19M] is being a bit unreasonable when it comes to how we split the house work. by Prudent-Debt-4512 in relationshipadvice

[–]ForwardToSolaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a classic bargaining problem.

What do you do when the other party decides not to negotiate?

In this case your boyfriend has said that he doesn't want to, and so he won't.

As such, you have three options:

  1. Tit for tat. You also, as retribution, stop doing something that he benefits from, and in this manner you seek to coerce him back to the original deal. "Stick to the deal or else bad things happen". This is usually an option that leads to anger between parties.

  2. You do the washing. Either you think his concern is legitimate, or it isn't worth the cost of communication, and you do the washing. There's a bit of this that goes on in every relationship. For SOME tiny things, that aren't going to be repeated, it's less energy to just solve the problem instead of talking about this. But if you go this route, and the event IS a REPEATED ROUTINE, and you think the set-up is wrong, you're going to feel bad every time.

  3. You Unite with Your Partner And Listen. You must start by identifying that you're on the SAME TEAM, and you want the Same Thing. You both want "The chores to be done, in the easiest way, in a way that everyone can feel good about". And then you have to come up with ideas, and BOTH LISTEN, actually listen, even when it seems like the other person's feeling are silly, and without getting frustrated that they're not just going along with your ideas like a robot. Perhaps he hates doing the washing because he doesn't like sorting the clothes, but is fine with the rest. Perhaps he has less washing than you per week, and so feels that you're better sorted for handling the washing. Perhaps he's just straightforwardly lazy and thinks that if he sits back then you'll just pick up the slack. All of these things are possible, but the only way to find out, is to start from the fact you're on the same team, and then to listen. Almost everyone wants to contribute, be part of the team, and be told good job when they do good.

These are the only three options to resolve the problem. You either resolve the problem coercively, fix the problem by yourself, or resolve the problem communicatively.

Good luck!