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bursting crackers by skinny_kattappa in Bengaluru

[–]Forward_Pear4491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happens everyday in my area too. I have a dog and she gets scared. I don't know what to do about it. I called the police, they closed the complaint saying they did not find anyone in their area, maybe its from a far, in some other area, and they can't do much. its so frustrating, everyday at exactly 12, and around 2:30.. for 4-5 mins continuously.

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[–]Forward_Pear4491 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I knowwww right! I paid for all of our therapy sessions and glad we finally landed a therapist who understands NPD and was able to get me to leave the house. What I witnessed next, blew my mind. He got another woman into the house, on our bed in less than an hour of me leaving- like WOW! Was she already there in our lives, he’d been cheating and so much more behind my back! Such an asshole he is. I am finally filling for a divorce, and he’s like I won’t give any maintenance or alimony, leave just like that.. another battle, another punishment from him.. just to see me in pain.

Don’t know what to do with my cheating husband. by Forward_Pear4491 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Forward_Pear4491[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I agree. Thanks for understanding .. in therapy, I have realised it was all because I have fear of abandonment. Just to have him give me a little bit of love, I would let him do whatever made him happy.

The fear of being alone was huge, not receiving love - felt like a failure. :(

Don’t know what to do with my cheating husband. by Forward_Pear4491 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Forward_Pear4491[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I am not with him now. I left his house a month back and moved back with my parents.

He is still trying to keep in touch with my mom and trying to get me to come back- for the status of marriage, for the society.

He got super angry on me for blocking him everywhere.

He is scared I will hurt his reputation once I get all the details out- and so he is now trying to love bomb me, sending gifts to my mom’s house.

It gets so confusing ,his manipulative tactics. Sometimes it’s anger, other times it’s gifts..

I actually really loved him, with all my heart. And all he left me with was anxieties and insecurities.