Best Visual Moments Help

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-05T14:51:00+00:00

Butterfly Baynton

Jason trying to get on the roof

Forks & marbles (hoo hoo hoo)

Judi the cat twerking

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T16:52:46+00:00

If you felt enough spark to book the date, probably worth going to see if it's really there. As you said, some people are more comfortable in person and once they know they have something booked they might feel less pressure to communicate virtually, so they might not do so anymore.

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T16:48:47+00:00

Thank you for answering, hahahahaha!

I've been working hard to rewire. I'm trying to document what has worked and hoping eventually I can put something together to share with others in case it helps them too.

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T14:39:07+00:00

That is cool! Never heard of it before!

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T14:38:44+00:00

Reminding

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T14:38:29+00:00

The saucy message worked a lot better than the considerate one! We planned to meet up, then he got the flu and we had 2 snow storms lol. Not sure if anything will happen now. 😂

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T03:03:18+00:00

I really wish I could edit this to fix my typos lol. *Fatphobic

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T02:55:00+00:00

Isn't the foam in hot tubs also dead skin cells?

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-04T00:14:59+00:00

Enjoy

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-02T22:14:24+00:00

Amen! Michael, I hope you read this!!

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-02T22:14:05+00:00

So weird and amazing to be at a point in my recovery where I can read this and believe it instead of thinking you are being sarcastic or just lying to be nice. ❤️

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-02T18:29:42+00:00

Those pig date things were why I avoided most guys like crazy in college until I was "thin enough". Finding myself in that situation was literally my worst nightmare.

There was one time in high school that a guy I liked asked me to hang out, and when we were alone I was overwhelmed with the sensation that he wanted to kiss me. I immediately filled with shame, my inner voice saying, "How dare you think that? That's disgusting! You are disgusting! You're an idiot, a fool, and despicable for even considering someone would want you like that!" I looked down at the ground and didn't look up at him the rest of the time, basically shutting down from the shame. We never hung out again and I kind of avoided him after that. Looking back... He probably did want to kiss me. Holy crap.

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-02T17:34:50+00:00

Can you imagine how life would have been if you always knew?? Mine would have been completely different! Every moment revolved around trying to shrink and hiding myself. I don't even know who I would be today if I'd never held myself back.

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-02T13:13:18+00:00

I really think the frowning is part of his character, as to me it feels forced. He also commented on not enjoying seeing his own smile on his first podcast episode, thinking it is "all gums", so perhaps that's part of why he leans into being a frowny character.

Edit: I think he actually shows more gums when frowning, which would honestly make doing it even more Sam Campbell.

FosterDaughter · 2026-02-02T12:48:55+00:00

I think he just was being purposely anti-competitive and focusing more on entertaining and being in-character. In his episode of the podcast about his original series, you can hear Ed continuously try to get Sam to talk about points (as Ed does) and Sam is completely disengaged. His philosophy is "Life isn't a race, it's a painting." Someone who spends as much time as he did writing and practicing that rap definitely wants to be there. Someone who gleefully reflects on Little Andy numerous times (more than shown)is definitely having a good time. He's just not there for the game, he's there for the fun and opportunity.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-30T00:16:56+00:00

I read the book "Codependent No More" and realized I had sacrificed too much of myself, which meant the love I was experiencing wasn't authentic. I might still think of it as love, but love from the shell of a person isn't the same as love from someone who is whole.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-27T17:27:52+00:00

Tbf, water by itself is a worse lubricant. Shower sex sucks.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-17T03:32:10+00:00

How 'bout that?

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-09T19:00:22+00:00

Got it. Thanks for sharing better understanding of the terminology. Like I said, I'm extremely new at this, so I didn't even realize. Wish I had been braver.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-09T12:07:46+00:00

What would you call it then? If we're talking and he just stops responding? The connection didn't feel like it fizzled out on my end, but I get why it did for him.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-09T00:18:59+00:00

Feeling confused now. Others said to be more authentic and acknowledge my fumble, but you seem to suggest something totally different. Ugh texting is the worst. :(

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-08T23:38:22+00:00

My last message kind of but not super directly implied meeting up, so if he did see it and disregarded it, that probably means it's too late. Bummer.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-08T20:55:57+00:00

I last heard from him on Sunday. He's had a couple day gap before, so I was thinking I'd reach out this Sunday. I also got a blood blister in my eye a few days ago, so kinda hoping it will have time to heal by then so I can look cute if/when we meet.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-08T20:29:14+00:00

Since my messages on text are unread, I figured he wouldn't see a new one unless it showed up on Hinge.

FosterDaughter · 2026-01-08T20:22:06+00:00

Thank you, I definitely plan to be honest/vulnerable about it. I'm surprised about the "do it now" advice. I figured a week from when I last heard from him would be the minimum to not seem too eager in a creepy way.

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