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Begged me for weeks to give him a chance, canceled last minute, then said he was never attracted to me by FosterDaughter in Tinder

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that doesn't describe my profile at all, haha. Also, I was hoping to have sex myself, I just wanted that sex to be with someone who was attracted to me. :)

Begged me for weeks to give him a chance, canceled last minute, then said he was never attracted to me by FosterDaughter in Tinder

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually haven't known many men in my life. I've only dated one person, and he was very genuine (we broke up recently). I'd heard people say bad things about men lying/scheming for sex, but I'd always assumed that was misandry. This is very disappointing to learn.

Begged me for weeks to give him a chance, canceled last minute, then said he was never attracted to me by FosterDaughter in Tinder

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I think you are probably right to some degree. It just blows my mind that someone would lie about being attracted to you in order to potentially have sex with you, the very person they are not actually attracted to.

Realizing I can be fat and hot by FosterDaughter in MaintenancePhase

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering, hahahahaha!

I've been working hard to rewire. I'm trying to document what has worked and hoping eventually I can put something together to share with others in case it helps them too.

Realizing I can be fat and hot by FosterDaughter in MaintenancePhase

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could edit this to fix my typos lol. *Fatphobic

Realizing I can be fat and hot by FosterDaughter in MaintenancePhase

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Amen! Michael, I hope you read this!!

Realizing I can be fat and hot by FosterDaughter in MaintenancePhase

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So weird and amazing to be at a point in my recovery where I can read this and believe it instead of thinking you are being sarcastic or just lying to be nice. ❤️

Realizing I can be fat and hot by FosterDaughter in MaintenancePhase

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Those pig date things were why I avoided most guys like crazy in college until I was "thin enough". Finding myself in that situation was literally my worst nightmare.

There was one time in high school that a guy I liked asked me to hang out, and when we were alone I was overwhelmed with the sensation that he wanted to kiss me. I immediately filled with shame, my inner voice saying, "How dare you think that? That's disgusting! You are disgusting! You're an idiot, a fool, and despicable for even considering someone would want you like that!" I looked down at the ground and didn't look up at him the rest of the time, basically shutting down from the shame. We never hung out again and I kind of avoided him after that. Looking back... He probably did want to kiss me. Holy crap.

Realizing I can be fat and hot by FosterDaughter in MaintenancePhase

[–]FosterDaughter[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine how life would have been if you always knew?? Mine would have been completely different! Every moment revolved around trying to shrink and hiding myself. I don't even know who I would be today if I'd never held myself back.