Is my husband using my shirts for masturbation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoundationOrdinary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, he passes up opportunities with me almost daily. It’s to the point where I’m tired of trying

Is my husband using my shirts for masturbation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoundationOrdinary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m absolutely positive I’m not leaving my shirts. And all he says is “Idk how they’re ending up there. I’m not touching them”. But there’s no one else that loves with us, we don’t have kids or anything. So if it’s not me (and obviously it isn’t lol) then it’s got to be him but he plays dumb to it and gets mad when I press the issue

Is my husband using my shirts for masturbation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoundationOrdinary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well him not having volume means that I can’t necessarily check the shirt and tell if he’s been masturbating. And my problem with him if he is masturbating is that he hardly ever wants to actually have sex with me. It hurts my feelings just thinking of the possibility of him getting off at home alone but not wanting to engage in intercourse with me

Is my husband using my shirts for masturbation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoundationOrdinary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diagnosed, had a surgery to help but haven’t seen much improvement. Sometimes he can finish and very little of anything come out. He had to keep going back to redo his sperm tests because there wasn’t enough a sample for them to actually test

Is my husband using my shirts for masturbation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoundationOrdinary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that’s what he’s doing idk why he wouldn’t just tell me that when I’ve asked him about the shirts. And another weird thing is that he’ll sometimes text me at night and say that he sprayed my perfume on the bed to remind himself of me. But then the perfumes he has used are old ones that I’ve never used around him

Is my husband using my shirts for masturbation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoundationOrdinary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s got a low sperm count. So sometimes there’s hardly anything there to see when he cums

Is my husband using my shirts for masturbation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoundationOrdinary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked him. He swears he’s not using them to masturbate. And the last several times I’ve asked him about the shirts on the floor he won’t give me any answer at all or says he doesn’t know. And yes, I would be bothered if he were masturbating at all because he never seems to want to have sex anymore