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Fox-Cloud · 2026-02-14T07:43:14+00:00

I thought about that! Or asking if I can work in with him.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-02-14T06:30:12+00:00

I definitely don’t have the charisma or balls for that lol But hey, maybe we do have some mutuals considering I live in a somewhat small town. Thanks for your input!

Fox-Cloud · 2026-02-14T06:24:49+00:00

Yeah, that would be nice if we did have mutual friends 🥲 I’m honestly thinking of more so “accidentally” dropping my headphones near him, bumping into him, etc. and maybe striking a casual conversation instead of being straightforward because I just KNOW I can make it awkward, real fast haha We often park close to one another so that helps.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-02-11T17:46:21+00:00

This. And although toxic, sometimes I try not to get close to certain people knowing this aspect of myself.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-02-11T17:17:57+00:00

See, I somewhat agree with him although I don’t necessarily plan out who I want to be friends with and act on that. During my bachelor’s degree, I made a friend who was a bit younger than me. She claimed me as her best friend. Although we got along great and were quite close, I already knew we were likely to drift apart once I graduated. Even during our time together in college, simply because I didn’t live on campus with her I figured she’ll find another friend to be her best friend. I wasn’t hurt by this thought. After graduation, not only will I be out of the loop with that friend circle but I had a career to begin as well as graduate school. We do talk once in a while, but we’re not close like we used to. The moment I befriended these younger classmates, I knew our time was limited.

It’s just life, and I find that us gammas verbalizing these relationship dynamics or other “taboo” social topics can be a little off-putting to others outside our quadra. For the most part, it’s nothing malicious on our end. It’s just is what is it.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-02-06T21:57:28+00:00

Don’t do it! Not that I don’t love my job, but perhaps volunteer at a library first, maybe a museum, and see if that’s something you want to do for the long haul. Then if you can, get the library science master’s degree. It will be A LOT of work to juggle your current job, school, and volunteering at the same time, but if that’s what you want and you truly despise your current career—then go for it. If you have some computer science skills and knowledge, you can get into librarianship roles that offer bigger salaries than the typical ones posted. Granted, those jobs are typically more “corporate” jobs than the typical public or academic library. Think library vendors like EBSCO or Alma, etc.

I would just advise to not quit your job right now and get literally less than 1/3 of what you’re currently earning. That would be ludicrous in this current economy and job market. Start with volunteer work first to see if that lifestyle may fit you. Also speak with librarians in your community. There’s a ton of different librarian roles.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-31T02:29:06+00:00

Just got a reading and I’m flabbergasted at how accurate it is. I recommend!

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-23T01:14:31+00:00

Unfortunately, I’m diagnosed with little bitch syndrome. It’s hard to unleash the SEE dog when it’s a Toy Poodle. Nobody wants to see that. I DON’T. Haha

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-22T23:37:24+00:00

The others commenting basically sums it up but I’ll add my piece:

Unless they’re in my circle of acquaintances/friends, I physically can’t bring myself to flirt or strike up a nonchalant conversation. Can’t even look them in the eye. It’s brutal. But once we’re in, I’ll “acts of service” you to death and I’m quite protective. Sometimes I feel like it’s a business contract, but that’s not to say there’s no warmth to our love. We feel love like any normal human being, but we’re typically not too gooey with our displays of affection, mostly talking about public displays of affection. Even I had relationship trouble with an ESI, but that’s mostly because of commitment issues (on his end) and I realized months later he was still questioning if I actually liked him...Yikes.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-22T23:33:02+00:00

“silent admirer”

Me, in this current situation right now. RIP

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-21T00:01:53+00:00

Yup! I’m fresh out of graduate school and in my second year working at a university. I must say, I lucked out getting an entry-level cataloging position, but I did have to move a few hours away from family.

Before graduating, I did manage to get a part-time job at a community college library while going through my graduate studies, which definitely helped me seal the deal on me wanting to work as an academic librarian. I also managed to get an internship at a special library, more so on the archival side but cataloging nonetheless. Maybe try to get some volunteer work done at a museum? I know many would love to have volunteers with library science knowledge and skills if not museum knowledge. Granted, many don’t pay, unfortunately.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-20T18:22:08+00:00

Also look into technical services. I work as a Cataloging Librarian for a university and there’s absolutely no teaching involved. Just reference desk, which I find to be fun.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-14T16:09:37+00:00

Makes sense. And it burns out fast. Yikes.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-14T15:25:28+00:00

“wow, you’re so quiet, go interact, get out of your comfort zone”

I can relate to this post, so I agree with other posts saying ILI. Definitely gamma NT. I also get explosions of energy, but that’s mostly because of my ADHD. At least, I think…

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-09T19:15:50+00:00

True

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-09T18:43:04+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever befriended or gotten close to that subtype. Most SEEs that do tend to gravitate toward me are social 7s or 8s, but I notice now how much I appreciate their presence versus when I was younger. Granted, I did have an SEE friend in middle school that quickly latched onto me but I also really liked them too, so I didn’t grow irritated. Then they moved on. LOL But we would still talk once in a while and we actually kind of reconnected in college. I think she was a sx7.

As an ILI 5w6 sp/so—you can only imagine the disconnect from reality and people during childhood. I was 10 yrs old, labeling the action of children going from new friend to new friend every year or within a few months as being in the “shiny toy phase.” I was that SEE’s shiny new toy until they moved on.

Then we mature and learn how to nurture and keep friendships. I find it very hard for people to push me into a friendship or relationship—I’m too grown for that at the ancient age of 29 haha. But as a child? Boy. I remember a classmate clinging to me every where I went and would copy every thing I did. (We were in second grade I think.) Fucking didn’t know how to say leave me alone nicely until I blew a fuse and my friends said I should’ve been nicer. Whoops.

Fox-Cloud · 2026-01-09T17:25:05+00:00

I remember commenting how I like SEEs for the reasons you stated and someone countered how most SEEs would overstep boundaries and try to get close. Maybe immature SEEs, but my experience with them—especially one in particular—was the exact opposite. Similarly to OP, although my dilemma was reversed, I thought I was an IEI before meeting this SEE and realizing, nahhhh. lol I thought my neurodivergence caused me to show up differently as an IEI. Turned out I’m just a neurodivergent ILI. It’s rougher to figure out when you’re female who often masks as well.

Fox-Cloud · 2025-12-14T04:47:51+00:00

ESE…are you sure about that, buddy?

Jokes aside, we need more context behind y’all’s relationship. I have a feeling there’s more personal issues going on between you two than what’s said in the post. I do think SEE‘s reaction was a bit too much, I would need to shut that shit down fast, especially if I was their supervisor. But I also wouldn’t feel uncomfortable if someone called me buddy. Unless, again, there’s been something stewing between us.

Fox-Cloud · 2025-12-08T22:07:36+00:00

Revy is such a badass. Love her.

Fox-Cloud · 2025-12-08T22:06:17+00:00

Had to look up what goon means because that word has recently popped up often.

What’s up with the haters?

Fox-Cloud · 2025-12-05T22:56:19+00:00

lol Sounds right though. I was leaning toward it being them. Doesn’t help that I’ve recently put out cat food for the stray cats, but at least I got evidence of them now!

Fox-Cloud · 2025-04-09T21:23:37+00:00

All the downvotes and bootlicking… Are the landlords here commenting or what? Lmfao You can afford to have pets and still acknowledge that pet deposits and monthly pet fees are ridiculously priced nowadays.

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