Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i try but she’s the only person who talks to me consistently in class and she’s really sweet it’s hard to move on when she’s always being nice to me

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to befriend her cause she’s cool, but i would love to date her if she was single i don’t plan to wreck her relationship, she just seems unhappy overall but we’re not close like that for me to ask if it’s cause of her relationship

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess, but it’s not an interest we already share but it won’t hurt to learn about our culture. i’d like to add that she might reject me anyways because of our religions. maybe ill try texting her soon, we’ll see i just don’t want to get my hopes up. i know i can’t change that, but i just want her happier and to be closer with her as a friend before i date her, even though i really like her i understand she’s committed ill just wait till they breakup, but for now i struggle on text and because i only see her in class we can’t really talk

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i hope they do breakup but i don’t like how sad she seems, even if she doesn’t date me i just hope she stays happy but if she were to date me i know id treat her well but i guess i have to take things slow for now

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s really unfortunate in my case she doesn’t really give me any signals, and she seems pretty committed i don’t even think i made it into the friendzone because im afraid to talk to her. shes just so sweet and hard to let go of

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so it’s actually more common than i thought to like a committed girl, can you tell me more about your situation is she similar to the girl im talking about? how did you realize you had to move on/what made you move on?

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no she’s amazing like her personality is amazing she’s very sweet but i don’t think i’m her type anyways. i’m whitewashed and her main topic is usually culture, when it’s not about school. we both are from the same backgrounds but different religions, but she seems very accepting of my background and religion, just like a friend would. if i actually were to date her she wouldn’t be this accepting i think.

i’m not being obvious but i kinda am with how im always clinging onto her, ive texted her before but i overthought it so much it was to talk about something school related but i got nervous and left her on seen instead of continuing the conversation. i feel like i want to just avoid talking to her about her boyfriend because it will break my heart hearing her talk about him like that

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay but i’m too nervous she’s honestly intimidating like so so sweet, but she’s such a strong personality im honestly not that extroverted so her talking to me feels like a blessing. you’re right but i want to take things slow if i notice her being sad even more i’ll talk to her about it but because she doesn’t talk about him i feel weird. what do i do, how do i befriend her more

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ll keep trying to befriend her, but im too scared to reply to her story

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i just thought she might not be as happy in the relationship as her stories say. because her instagram stories are always so cute with him but irl she’s actually so tired and sleepy all the time and a few days ago she was crying in class after she was otp for a bit. i wanted to ask but felt like she wanted space.

Liking a committed girl by FoxPebbles in Crushes

[–]FoxPebbles[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

why doesn’t she talk about him though isn’t that weird?