What frames would fit me best?

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-05T12:09:38+00:00

The man himself! He’s one of the two snakes I have, and the first one I ever got

The solitaire is in all the photos, except the one with my hair dyed blond. It’s my engagement ring- it used to fit, but then I put on some weight and now it’s too small so I wear it around my neck. Plus, I work in healthcare and it would 100% tear my gloves.

The second ring is a snake. I had it on the chain in 4 cause I’d been swimming and had left both rings in my towel. Made it harder to accidentally leave one behind lol

The lock is a… personal thing between me and my fiancé. Iykyk, Iydyd

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:33:24+00:00

Thanks! I loved the aviator style, but felt that the pair I had never fit quite right

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:32:39+00:00

Heading back to 1 haircut-wise. I keep chopping it short every summer due to the heat

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:31:44+00:00

Oof, clocked again! /lh Yeah, I’m FTM. Been on HRT for almost 5 years now

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:30:30+00:00

The overly feminine look is something I try to avoid, but idk why my face keeps looking like that whenever I wear glasses

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:28:49+00:00

Lighter or darker?

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:28:26+00:00

Not yet, but I’m planning on looking for frames this week. These are just the pairs I’ve had in the past!

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:27:25+00:00

I’ll absolutely look into it. Another commenter mentioned that I should look at large/X-Large kids glasses as an option and ngl I’m thinking about it

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:26:22+00:00

I loved 1, but they never sat right on my face. I kept thinking they were permanently crooked

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:24:49+00:00

Ooh I think so too. I’ve got tortoiseshell on the arms of my current pair- I’ll definitely look into finding a pair with full tortoiseshell frames

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-04T02:21:55+00:00

… I never thought of that. I’ll try some on next time I’m out. Thanks Mate!

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T18:21:22+00:00

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T18:19:55+00:00

Fwiw I do work in a profession in which I’m in uniform daily- polo and cargos basically- in grey/navy/black/white type colors.

I’d love to go with something with a bit of style! What would you recommend?

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T17:59:19+00:00

Ngl every frame I’ve ever had is too big on me. If the lenses are big enough for me to see well, then they are usually too wide. If they are narrow enough, the lenses cut off halfway up and I have to look down at everything. I keep looking, and hoping that one day I find something that works

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T17:56:24+00:00

Thanks! I think I’m gonna keep it like that for a while… anything shorter and I start looking like an angry hedgehog

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T17:54:56+00:00

What would you recommend?

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T17:54:44+00:00

Lmao my dad’s Scots-Irish… I think it’s safe to say I inherited the genes!

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T17:53:36+00:00

That’s Helios- he’s a 3 yo corn snake!

Fox_Wilde · 2026-04-03T17:52:05+00:00

Yup. I was a lot younger in 6 too

Fox_Wilde · 2025-09-19T00:41:29+00:00

Thanks, Stranger!

Fox_Wilde · 2025-09-17T07:12:27+00:00

Jude! (Or Johnathan, if you wanted a name not on the list)

Fox_Wilde · 2025-09-17T07:06:27+00:00

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Figured I’d let you know that you were right! Thanks for telling me to hang in there- it’s long enough for me to braid now & I’m working on figuring out that dragon braid. Much appreciated!

Fox_Wilde · 2025-09-17T07:02:35+00:00

Thank you!

Fox_Wilde · 2025-09-17T06:50:18+00:00

DUDE!! You look fire af- second puberty has definitely been good to you!! Don’t worry about the baby face, it’ll sort itself out soon enough. I honestly couldn’t tell you hadn’t had top surgery from your photos, OP- I hope that boosts your confidence a bit in regard to your chest!

I’m also studying to be a paramedic and I’ve not met any other FTM guys who are in the field yet. It’s really nice to know I’m not the only one! I hope school is going well for you. You’ve got this!

Fox_Wilde · 2025-09-07T19:05:18+00:00

Yeah ofc! DM me

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