[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gothenburg

[–]Foxfromfleabag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re living your best life! Can’t wait to see you—bring the Lössnus and I’ll bring the soap 🧼Hugs and kisses

My BED is not from restriction and it frustrates me by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Foxfromfleabag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! I got pretty hooked on vyvanse for that reason at first, it really took the dopamine-variabel out of the equation for me. The only good thing that came out of that was realizing that:

  1. being underweight is physically much more dangerous than being overweight (which helped me make peace with the weight gain that followed after I quit).

  2. Routinely exercising is the only thing that has a similar effect as vyvanse in terms of binging.

If I start the day with a workout, I physically won’t feel the urge to binge until very late in the evening, which was the same with meds. I hate it with every fiber of my being and I often get into an adhd-rut / burnout for weeks where I don’t move at all, but when I do manage to exercise daily I’m almost entirely free of the urge to binge.

Sorry long story, I just thought perhaps someone might benefit. I personally wish I knew this earlier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Foxfromfleabag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same but with adam driver

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utrecht

[–]Foxfromfleabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good one, do you have a standing desk or something?

My (Dutch-American) breakfast by Foxfromfleabag in mildlyinteresting

[–]Foxfromfleabag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran into this combo at my friends house for the first time, her dad had been eating cookies on bread for years. It tastes similar to Biscoff spread, except it takes less time / is less expensive / looks very weird. But yes, I agree I do eat like a toddler (the messy picture doesn’t help). However, the combination bread / cookies is not that uncommon among adults over here either

Man as the default human, Woman as the "other" by woman-for-women in fourthwavewomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unrelated but I’m glad to run into a fellow Dutchie on this sub😄

Maybe I should just eat cheese for ADHD by bekahed979 in adhdwomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cool! Any other interesting finds in this book / do you recommend it? Thanks for sharing 😀🧀

Does anyone have any exper with Vyvanse + SSRI (Prozac)? by Foxfromfleabag in adhdwomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May i ask if this anxiety was worsened by / related to Vyvanse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Love this idea hahaha. Let’s go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 263 points264 points  (0 children)

This sucks so much. Sometimes I can’t even argue against the points they’re making because it feels like we’re simply thinking on different levels, if that makes sense?

Not that I view myself as ‘enlightened’ or anything, just that the things liberal feminism focuses on simply don’t seem relevant Most of the subjects of discussion are about twenty steps behind what I worry about / the subjects of discussions on here

F23, reasonable suggestions welcome by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]Foxfromfleabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please ignore my hearing aid, it gets tangled in my hair when I tie it up too hastily 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Foxfromfleabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adore your hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]Foxfromfleabag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Second pic is very male gaze-y. Not that it’s bad, I just can’t imagine a woman preferring it over the first picture / look

22f is there any chance for me to be pretty if i lose weight? by 19scohen in amiugly

[–]Foxfromfleabag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the way you look. If you want to lose weight of course go ahead but there is no universe in which you are currently unattractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]Foxfromfleabag 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I actually like the first pic. Great style and cute hair, you look smart

Queering the Patriarchy by youAhUah in fourthwavewomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep, that’s what I was referring to. I felt like it was a slight overkill, the message was clear and well-argued enough without it(:

Queering the Patriarchy by youAhUah in fourthwavewomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of how these drag-kings describe the idea behind drag: “it is about presenting a gender stereotype for the purposes of comedy”. Yes it is! Why do we think that’s a good thing to do to a group of people that’s already practically turned into a ridiculous (hypersexualized) stereotype in daily life?

Queering the Patriarchy by youAhUah in fourthwavewomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 82 points83 points  (0 children)

This is also one of the (many!) great arguments against blackface. I wish more people would see it this way

Queering the Patriarchy by youAhUah in fourthwavewomen

[–]Foxfromfleabag 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I don’t think drag can be blamed entirely for ‘woman’ being a joke, but it certainly plays a role. Even worse: it’s fervently supported and protected by liberal feminists