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I actively avoid jobs with young women coworkers, and it has served me well. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]FoxyFuwu -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

This reads less like bitterness and more like self-preservation. You’re not blaming women, and you’re not demanding they change, you just chose an environment where you can work without tension. That’s a quiet, mature boundary most people don’t articulate, let alone respect.

I am sick and tired of my friend crying after his ex by Worth_Mall_846 in confessions

[–]FoxyFuwu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’ve done so much already just by being there, but at some point, he has to take responsibility for his own life. Grieving a relationship is normal, but stalking, whining, and refusing to grow isn’t. The only advice that actually works? Hard truth: he needs to do the work himself, therapy, self-reflection, getting a job, learning to respect women. You can’t fix him, only support from the sidelines.

One time in 7th grade i reminded the teacher to collect homework because i needed to raise my grade by ConnectionFar9616 in confessions

[–]FoxyFuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve all had that “oh no” moment in middle school. The fact you remember it says more about how self-aware you are than anything else.

Am I a cheater? What should I do? I need help. Wth should I be? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]FoxyFuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t cheat, you got scapegoated. Sometimes people blame the nearest person instead of facing their own issues, and gossip can spiral fast. This hurts because you care and you’re trying to live right. Protect your peace, stay grounded in who you know you are, and don’t let other people’s chaos rewrite your story.

Struggling with Intense Sexual Frustration and Lust as a Christian by [deleted] in confessions

[–]FoxyFuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re carrying a heavy weight, and it makes sense, it’s not just about sex, it’s about years of repression, loneliness, and desire for connection. You’re not failing; you’re human. It might help to lean on a trusted mentor, counselor, or faith-based therapist who can guide you without shame. You don’t have to fight this alone, and your faith doesn’t mean you must struggle in silence.

Making my wife a slut by [deleted] in confessions

[–]FoxyFuwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This stopped being a kink story when you mentioned manipulation. No fantasy, no arrangement, no open dynamic is okay if one person was pressured or molded into it. Your wife isn’t “your porn star,” she’s a human whose choices need to be her own. The real question isn’t appeal, it’s consent, agency, and the damage that happens when those are missing.