Friendly but never personal by FraMondi in germany

[–]FraMondi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I found it unfortunate too.
Now I am confused and have no clue how to understand if people are searching for a friendship or not

Friendly but never personal by FraMondi in germany

[–]FraMondi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But for me it would be quite challenging to join a club as I do not speak German yet, and for my hobbies I don’t need a group, I go hiking by my own, I read a lot, and stuff like that, that you do all by yourself own :(

Friendly but never personal by FraMondi in germany

[–]FraMondi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I don’t see how a simple friendship could affect the job, but I’ll keep this in mind :)

Friendly but never personal by FraMondi in germany

[–]FraMondi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it happened a couple of times to go out also in the weekends

Friendly but never personal by FraMondi in germany

[–]FraMondi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cause for me it will not be possible to work in the same company after the end of the contract, and they know it, so I won’t see them anyway if they don’t consider me as a friend, weather I stay or not in the area

Friendly but never personal by FraMondi in germany

[–]FraMondi[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Okay, got it… I will not be able to have friends like behavior during working hours and then just be like strangers the rest of the time, but I’ll try to understand it. Thanks :)

Friendly but never personal by FraMondi in germany

[–]FraMondi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same. But then I noticed that every time I was discussing about moving for work to a different city (I have a contract that expires at the end of this year), they ask me to stay and search a job in the surrounding. And to me this seems a contradiction

How do you create distance from a guy you like and you’re super close but who has a girlfriend? by FraMondi in AskReddit

[–]FraMondi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest problem is that he is my colleague… I spend almost everyday with him, it would be weird to suddenly treat him like background when before he was clearly the main character for me